Happened to me 2-3 times now. Basically went out with my friend's last night to catch up, ended up getting really drunk and chatting to girls in bars and then a club. Wasn't the intention to pick up women but you guys know how it is when you see them all dressed up...

Anyway, made out with a few girls, one I stayed with for like 30 minutes before the club closed. She gave me her number at some point as I said I wanted to see her again this week. We went outside, she was sort of playing hard to get but I think wanted me to go home with her. I was too drunk so the sex would've been shit and so I didn't bother. I said I'll message her and I got my uber home

I messaged her today and it was read immediately but no response (that old chestnut LOL). My only thinking is she was annoyed I didn't go home with her last night. Bad sex and having to sleep in someone else's bed, get a slow train home in the morning, etc wasn't too appealing and I would've been happy to see her again.

Is it a case of she was probably looking for a one night stand and I missed my chance? If I'm out but don't want to fuck that night (too drunk, stuff to do next day, etc) is it just a necessary loss? I've had another girl I'm seeing soon who I met doing the same thing but was able to successfully take her number and arrange something later

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This is all based on your morality and your self awareness. Everyone is different. I personally would still try to hit. But luckily even when I'm drunk, I still wear protection or at least pull out. Forget about the whole pleasuring shit and think about whether you can stay safe. I know I can and have and will continue do to so. If you aren't as prepared then don't do it.

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Thanks for the reply

I meant more from an enjoyment point of view than not wearing a condom. I've gone back with a couple of girls before when being too drunk and the sex is shit and it's not as comfortable as sleeping in my own bed. So I'm sure I could've gone back with this girl but the sex would've just been bad anyway as I was too drunk

Then there you go lol, why put yourself through that?

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In my mind, I've always telling myself that pulling or having sex while either I'm too drunk or her too drunk is a pathetic move. It requires no game and no skill. You just have to be at the right time and push for it (which is extremely easy with alcohol). It doesn't help or improve my game. Sex was terrible most of the time and the morning after was after awkward because neither of us remember shit about each other.

I enjoy pulling sober more. Both parties would enjoy the chemistry and there is some connection there. I understand, some guys that just started out may need to reply on alcohol to pull or talk to girls, and it's fine if it's temporary until you improve more. In the long run, gaming while drunk or drunk girls would only hurt your game.

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Well if the benefits don't outweigh the cons, then no?

Good luck trying convincing me to come to your place if I have to take a train ride in the morning to get back home, lol.

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Why is that a problem? It'a a ONS.
In my mind this statement totally depends on your drunkatude.

I've pulled from the bar often enough to be in a Woody Harrelson movie.
A nap, some orange juice, and a BLT you'll be good as new.

I remember waking up with a splitting headache, remembering fantastic sex with this bikini girl, to the smell of frying bacon. Felling satisfied running my finer tips across the paneling......wait!!! I DON'T HAVE ANY FUCKING PANELING! ..........

It was seriously a looooong day. But she was amazing.

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The window of opportunity slammed on your fingers lol strike while the iron is hot..

Not to sound all health freak on you but you should quit drinking... for the health and happiness of your penis alone, it's worth it lol most girls don't like a drunk.

Thanks all, I read everyone's response

I think you are right in that

a. strike while the iron's hot (girls lose interest FAST early on)
b. I shouldn't get so drunk

I probably wouldn't have gone to the club if I wasn't drunk but something I can work on. The come down from the alcohol sucks and the cost does too