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That's actually the anti-thesis of "abundance" and more of a scarcity mindset.
It can come from both places.
A man with abundance mentality has options available right away (Decaprio, Derek Jeter, etc). You won't see them huddled up and crying, you'll see them out with a new girl right away after they split with the last.
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Abundance mentality is more about the energy to which you do things. Swinging from relationship to relationship is very much being 'thirsty' or starved as its almost always a way to numb/dissociate one's self from doing the work on themselves.
That's too black and white. You can still have many attractive options, go for those options, and still be an emotionally centered man.
You can say it's about "energy" which some might call "vibe" or whatever. But the proof of abundance mentality is actual, physical abundance.
If things end with my gf, I'll simply text one of the attractive girls that hit me up, and start seeing her because I enjoy sex.
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Instead its much like any other addiction, fill the hole within with something else (external). Whether it be a drug, a behavior (gambling, hoarding etc) or another person...its all the same, and its ALL scarcity.
Everyone has a weakness. Everyone is trying to fill a hole. Humanity is one giant insecure species, fearful and anxious as we face death.There's nothing that will ever be done about that.
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I can be by myself (not in a relationship) and have an abundance mentality even if I choose not to date anyone and remain with myself. Its still abundance, the energy is abundance.
But you wouldn't do this if you had hot women with sharp wit blowing up your phone. So it's kind of bullshit.
Unless you had a low sex drive.