Before you go to Mexico I would strongly suggest that you head down to Miami and game Latin women down there.

pull out!!

She's on birth control.

I have no game, but ...

Why's that? No need for delay.

When I feel asleep last night, she said she got bored and her ex messaged her (guy from UK who cheated on her and used her for money), and she said she messaged back. Previously, she told me that he messaged her and she would ignore him.

Maybe I jumped the gun calling her my "girlfriend."

How should I handle this? I really don't think she'll go back to him. Maybe she's just testing me.

Should I add unphased? Should I say something like "if you go back to him, I'll never talk to you again."

How should I handle this? Sadly, I think if I back off and start talking to other girls, things will just fall apart and she'll lose interest.

Never mind, she told me that she just told him to stop talking to her.

If this "doesn't count" because of the way we met, then what does count? Do bars and clubs count or is it only day game?

Ya think?

I'm curious how your mind functions, red. You think a woman you've never met is your girlfriend? How? Because you talk a lot?

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When you sent the dick pic, did you pump it up?

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I've sent videos of me pumping it. She knows all about the inflatable dick.

Is this your first relationship ever?

No.

The very fact that you are a man who lacks confidence, does not take any risks [not discounting your pump up dick] you are dependent on external validation is why you are unsuccessful with women in the first place. You need to zoom out and look at the bigger picture, and not get lost in the small minutia of this Mexican interaction. Your primary problem is that these situations are occurring to begin with, your validation whoring runs deep, that's why you keep recreating these alter egos. To seek more validation.

You are doing the same thing with these women you meet, your not seeking sex or a relationship with them you only seek VALIDATION from them. Why? Because you are terrified of rejection and want to be 100% sure of success before ever making a clear move.

Be a man who shows his honest intent from the start and not the type of loser who comes here over analyzing every tiny interaction. It's very fucking tiring.

Take the fucking beer goggles off and you'll see this fear is unreal, this fear is your Kryptonite, and you are just as afraid to let go of IT! You've been holding on to it for so long it's become your security blanket.

The fear IS NOT REAL Hockeystick. Weather she's there for you or not is of little consequence. You cannot control her anyway.

Validate yourself and that fear will fall away. Think you are and you will become.

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I don't know why I lack confidence. I don't know what I'm missing. I'm confident about my ability in bed but not my worth as a human being.

I've taken more risks than just that. In October, I got plastic surgery on my dick with silicone. I had a full academic scholarship to the best University in the state but I dropped out to start my own business. Just now, I'm taking out a large loan against my house to finance the purchase and rehab of a house. But assuming you mean risks with women... If I were a risk taker, what kind of risks would I take with women? Asking club girls to come back to my place?

If I don't need women for validation, what do I need/want them for? That may result in me just fucking prostitutes again.

If you see this interaction with the Mexican girl to be meaningless, then what interaction with a girl/woman is NOT meaningless? Isn't there someone you will eventually form a relationship with? Maybe marry and have babies with?

What alter egos are you talking about?

How can you say I'm unsuccessful if I'm about to fuck this Mexican girl? And she's not the only girl I'm talking to, just the only one of any substance.