So I've been talking to this girl I met online who lives in Mexico. I live in Florida. Obviously, it sucks that she lives in Mexico, but she's really nice and truly cares about me. She'll even ask to see if I've eaten and remind me to get enough sleep and things like that. I don't know how or where this will end. I don't think I'm ready to entirely give up my single life. If I see a hot girl at a bar that wants to come home with me, I'd probably do it. But I would feel like I betrayed this girl. Her last boyfriend cheated on her.

I guess my question is how to handle this. She has mentioned swinging but I'm not sure I would want to share her with some other guy just so I can have sex with other girls.

This is my first relationship in a while. She's really smart and nice and everything. She's also a total freak who likes to be tied up, fucked, whipped and paddled.

I don't really know what to do. I kind of stumbled upon this by accident.

So you are fine with screwing other women but you don't like it if she does? That is being quite selfish if you ask me. If you want to be in an open relationship, specially a long distance one, you have to have your head on straight. You can't say you'd bang some hot chick in a bar and feel bad afterwords. You'd still be doing it. And to say that you don't want her doing the same will likely just turn her off specially since she already mentioned swinging.

It would definitely turn her off. I'm just not sure I'm ready to be monogamous.

It suddenly occurred to me that this relationship stuff is more fun than the pickup stuff. You get more sex in relationships than you do trying to bring home girls from bars.

It would definitely turn her off. I'm just not sure I'm ready to be monogamous.

It suddenly occurred to me that this relationship stuff is more fun than the pickup stuff. You get more sex in relationships than you do trying to bring home girls from bars.

Before you go too deep down the rabbit hole, ask yourself this: how did she treats you the last time you guys were together?

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We've never met! Lol.

We talk 24/7 on SPAM.

I imagine that she will be fucking my brains out as she states she wants to. She also wants to cook for me and maybe show me around Mexico City. We also plan to use the bondage straps, handcuffs, and paddles that she requested I bring.

I'm waiting on my passport (coming the 24th) and for my dick to heal from surgery (hopefully the 22nd).

So you're basically putting the cart before the horse. You're worrying about losing a girl that you don't have and never met in person. Don't start obsessing over this girl. I repeat, don't start obsessing over this girl. People make bad decisions when they start obsessing. Read between the lines of what I'm saying to you.

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I'm not obsessing over her. I think she likes me more than I like her.

I'm worried about losing her if I decide to cheat. It would be an easy thing to hide from a different country, but I'm not good at being dishonest.

She's not your girlfriend. You've never met. Therefore, you cannot cheat.

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But after we do.

In any event, it would drive he off if I was with other girls.

I already told her she could be the first to try my bionic dick.

But my point is...

If I was a true player, wouldn't I be able to have her and other girls (harem), with them all knowing about it?

Or is that just a thing of fantasy?

If that's how you presented yourself then a girl would accept it if you were worth it to her.

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But you can lose a lot by being too greedy.

Idk what to do. I guess it's up to me.

I don't get it how can she be your girlfriend when you haven't even fucked her?

Are you sure she is not just trying to get her greencard?

She hasn't mentioned wanting to come to the United States. We're gonna fuck all day when I go down there.

Her last boyfriend was a LDR with a guy from the UK. She doesn't like Mexican guys.