This is exactly how I would handle it. I love this guys approach.

My girl is never the one to go up and kiss anyone cheek to cheek or anything. She waves and says bye.

The problem is strangers we meet that dont know us and also friends that i know since highschool. That just come up say bye to me by shaking my hand and go to my girl and lean in and give a kiss cheek to cheek. I already talked to my girl about it and she also doesnt see it to be neccessary so she is going to put her hands ul next time and tell them " a handshake is cool or sorry im a handshaker" which i think is great for her to do that.

But me as an alpha and a dominant male i want to let my friends know im not cool with it and i dont know how to do that without them looking at me differently and as an over jelous dude making a big deal for nothing in theyre opinion. Theyre close friends so what you guys think would be a chill way to let them know to back off?

Also i want to know what to say in the moment to strangers we meet for the first time them come up and do this or is it better to let my girl just handle it in the moment so i dont cause a big deal?

That's exactly how it should be handled. Let her do it after you make her aware of your standards.

Your girl will speak more loudly for you with her actions, than you will with words.

If the spike bucks disrespect your girl when she pulls away, then it's time to speak up, or kick some ass.

I would not tolerate this kind of behavior from other males. And I have designed myself in a way that makes them think twice about coping a feel from my girl.

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I've had this happen to me on numerous occasions with my girl. When my girl pulls away but they insist on the cheek kiss or touching her that is disrespectful I will put my hand square on their chest and stop all forward momentum. Hit the gym a few times a week and they'll feel the power and it will make them think twice before disrespecting you again.

If you're alpha and dominant you shouldnt care how they look at you.

Let your girl do the handshaker line. That should get them to back off.

Roger that. Ill let her handle it with the actions. Not say anything to anyone unless they insist, Which is when i will come in and kick ass.

Meanwhile im gonna hit the gym and get some power.

You guys were a great help. For real. Cheers to you all. And thanks brothers.

-Takeher-

Great advice here, and if you do it with a big smile nobody's gonna consider you as the jealous/awkward dude.

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