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I said, "fuck it, I will approach girls."
First 5 set 4 girls 1 guy who looks HUGE. I open with, "i can only stay a second but i'm a psychology major.. i was hoping you can tell me wh do you think lies more, guys or girls." my target didn't answer and the other did. They broke into a discussion and i said, "omg, i think im on the view." They kinda just stared at me and my friend is amazing and called me so i don't look like im just ejecting the set out of failure.
SECOND SET: 2 SeT: i aproach with, "hey, don't you go to West Boca high school, cuz you look familiar." They bla blah blah.. and then i use the who lies more opener on them. They talk a litte, then I walk away.
Third Set 2 set: At a coffee shop (starbucks waiting in line:) I use the ame tactice as in the very first set and they kinda laugh and smile and stuff, weren't too impressed. I didnt use a False TIME CONSTRAINT cuz i forgot and i wasn't blown out, but i ejected.
Fourth Set: A girl at American Eagle. This was a 1 set. I open with the who lies more routine and break into a DHV story about how my high school prom date was Peruvian because she was from peru. I GOT SO FAR THAT I ALMOST #-closed. THE ONLY PROBLEM IS, she was leaving back to peru for the next day and was just visiting. I woulda had it.
FINAL 1 SET: This girl looked 28, but i approached her anyway for practice. I didnt use a routine, i jsut opened with, "I am a psychology major, and I am guessing peoples ages and you look 27, 28. Turned out, she was 35 and was so flattered. haha.
#-close set. My friend (who is also my wing) invited one of his friends who is a girl. And i was talking to her about pick up and I opened all those sets in her presence so she knew i wasnt just fuckin around. I pretended to be a mPUA and she was kinda impressed. At the end I was like, "listen, it was good meeting you, can i get your ##." she gave it to me, but idk when and if i should call.
(NOTE: my intension was to DESTROY my approach anxiety. Now i feel liek i can open a HB 10.) next time, i will work on maybe a # close or something along those lines. I don't know. I am 18 and I can't go to a a lot of clubs
MOST OF MY GAME IS DAY GAME!!! I have read the Venutian arts handbook but it dosent really specify day game.
Anyone have any suggestions on how to ## close on a day-game.
Also, i dnt know how to make something of this # close. My wings friend. I dont want to be in the LJBF zone or w.e, can i get some advice.
Firstly good shit man. That fuck it I'm going to approach mentality is exactly what you need. There are times when you're going to lose confidence but an attitude like that is going to get you through.
Day game is about all I do. I don't like clubs and pubs. Use time constraints, say that you gotta leave but would love to catch up sometime and continue this interesting conversation, ask her what is a good number to call her on and what would be a good time to call her. Simple as that.