So I went out with this lady last night whom drove 40 mins to see me. We had fun. We made out.

I asked if I should drive her up to her house, since I cant host.

She said " Nice try, but thanks."
Two minutes later, I said " I have to go, so I am getting the check."
She looked confused and seemed like she had a lot to say.
I asked her whats up she said " Im just trying to figure you out. Do you want to hook up or what.?"
I Said" I want love." She said " Okay, what do you think of us?."
I said " What do you think?"
She said" I think you are cute, confident, we have many things in common, and funny."
I said " Thank you. I want my worth in the dating market." She said " Okay."

She wanted me to pay for her drinks. She was like " Like if a guy asks me out, I think he should pay for drinks." I didnt say anything, so she went and paid for hers. A few seconds later, I said see you.


Does she think I'm choppliver here ? Women divide men into two sections: One provider aka beta, and other is lover aka alpha. The lover gets sex effortlessly, while the beta doesnt. She wanted me to pay for her drinks and get nothing in return. She would probably give it up easily to someone else. I felt offended WTF.

I wont text her again.

Do you think I made a mistake by doing all the asking in the interaction ? Like I shouldnt have paused in between a lot and have her do some of the work which she did after I realized that I was doing too much.



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You: Yes.


WTF?

She spilled on you a little bit, and you respond with a cold, robotic answer.

Her: I think you're cute and funny.
You: I know.


Escalate from there.

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Lol you weren't that into her and she could tell you just wanted the nookie. Lol "I want love" if you were trying to play the lover role here you failed miserably. I have never mentioned love in any of my lays or any shit that you heard in the movies or found a meme in regards to dating.



You are the man. You lead. Stop asking and start doing. Once your mouth talks your body should already be moving. Once you said "I want love" she immediately wrote you off as a hookup. Now you're out in a place where she wants to see how far she can take you. Sadly I could meet this chick this upcoming weekend and have a one night stand with her.

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First, when you handle the move back to her place so awkwardly, women can tell you're bad in bed. It's seduction. Lead, and lead smoothly.
So you made a lame attempt and she shut it down. Then you decided to go passive aggressive and corny.
Now, just reading what you wrote, it seems like sex is "giving up" and all this high school language. If you know you're good in bed and what you're doing, you dont think like this. If you think drinks=sex, or should equal sex, you're not seducing. No offense, you sound like the guy who if you had a gf, you'd cook dinner and expect she lay down for you. You always gotta seduce.

This was.. disturbing.

"Ey yo bitch I bought you a cocktail and you ain't even gonna suck me off?"

Lol.

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Terrible, just terrible.

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Literally cringe worthy

What do you mean by robotic and cold answer? How was I supposed to reply and escalate from there? All answers are appreciated.

I was so into her. I really liked her. How did I fail miserably ? She really liked me btw. I thought I always supposed to show that I am not there for her body but personality nd should NOT look like a pick-up.

All answers are appreciated.

Actually not true, I'm not the one who goes huffing and buffing. But I agree that I do need to work on my game. Please explain more. Do you think I should have seduced first THEN try to pull ?
Explain this more pls "Then you decided to go passive aggressive and corny.
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I dont know what you mean by that. But if you dont have a serious answer, then just dont. Thank you

The title of your question gives away how desperate you are.

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You're the literal reason that women find dating so frustrating.... because you're a fucking weirdo. You make girls cringe. Get it? Or do you need some pooah books?