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PostPosted: Sun Feb 12, 2017 7:11 am 
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So I have been approaching for about 7 months now, I'm at a point where I can handle my Approach Anxiety to the point if I see I girl I want, I will approach her, and can approach women relativity fast. However I still need to work on my conversation skills as I have not gotten any dates. However I feel that I am too outcome focused instead of working on the skill set.

Second, I still have a problem with inner game and self-confidence, It will fluctuate a lot between me having really high self-confidence and feeling like I can take on the whole world, then maybe a few hours later I will feel like the biggest loser in the world. Like yesterday I spent a good 6 hours battling with my self over this, or how earlier in the week I was having a near panic attack over my complete lack of conversational and social skills


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 12, 2017 8:27 am 
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What's your specific sticking point with your conversational skills?

a) Delivery
b) Content
c) Transitions
d) Listening skills
e) Lead generation (so the girl will talk more than you do)
f) Nonverbal communication
g) Compliance routines (so you can isolate the girl)
h) Commonality triggers (so she feels safe with you)

Your self confidence will only improve when you have gained a series of successes. Let's focus on the process first so you will be successful.

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 12, 2017 2:02 pm 
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What's your specific sticking point with your conversational skills?

a) Delivery
b) Content
c) Transitions
d) Listening skills
e) Lead generation (so the girl will talk more than you do)
f) Nonverbal communication
g) Compliance routines (so you can isolate the girl)
h) Commonality triggers (so she feels safe with you)

Your self confidence will only improve when you have gained a series of successes. Let's focus on the process first so you will be successful.
You forgot I) All of the above. I grew up in mostly in social isolation.. Right now I have been working voice projection and having a commanding presents, i'm improving, but like not very good.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 12, 2017 2:43 pm 
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Create a new gmail account and pm me your new email address. Let's work on this using a taskboard preferably Trello.

Example: DELIVERY

Task 1. Install a free voice recorder app on your Android phone. http://getandroidstuff.com/6-best-free- ... order-app/

Task 2. Read out loud and record the following tongue twisters: http://www.ef.com/english-resources/ton ... s-english/

Task 3. Send me an mp3 file of your recording in Task #2. Does not need to be perfect. We need a baseline to track your improvement.

Task 4. Read all tongue twisters 10x a day for 7 days.

Task 5. Record all tongue twisters on the 8th day and send me an mp3 file.

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Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html


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