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My guess is though somewhere you fucked up. I'll say it like this...there are less nutcase chicks out there than guys who do creepy or rude shit where the chick has to run. Two things stand out to me...the testing her with drinks thing and the jeez are you still working. That depends on your tone. Sure she could be crazy but your actions during and your texting kinda makes it sound like if she told you she wasn't feeling it your reaction wouldn't be chill. I've read your other events and chicks seem to go from hot to cold quickly. Could be over gaming
I don't get this from this interaction. She was down, she was happy, and even if it DID come across a bit harsh, bailing without ANY indication of having an issue is completely uncalled for. If it were a case that this was their first date, sure, but they've had dates before, and have had sex before, so I can't see that this should have been the case where she took such serious offense that she left without warning.
What I'm saying is if a chick bails this blatantly, after having sex with you then she doesnt give a fuck. She could have been texting another guy, if a chick likes you somewhat, and its just that she likes a guy, she'll give you a bs reason to bail. If she shut the door, like that, thats a bad sign. She couldve lied and said omg, emergency I gotta go, text you later. Even if she ran to another guy that night, some kinda excuse would come from her mouth if she wanted to leave the possibility open to come back to you. For some reason, she said I dont care for even the possibility anymore. Thats a sign you were on a thin thread and it broke. More likely than things were fine and she went from liking you to disappearing disrespectfully in a split second. I hear stories like this from chicks, I liked this guy, we met, he was weird but I wanted to fuck that night. We fucked that night and he was still weird. He asked me to go out next week, figured ok, maybe he was nervous. Got there, he started being weird again, did xyz which turned me off, seemed like the type to berate me if I said I should leave so I just left without telling him. I mean, just reading how he texted her when she disappeared and planned to text her in morning, chick saying I'm not feeling it wouldve been met with some push back from him.
Im not defending her, but either she is bipolar to just ghost at a venue if the sex was even decent, or that thread broke and he missed the signs. Its kinda like the guys who say wow my gf just dumped me out of the blue...no...you hadnt been having sex for months, you were arguing for weeks and things were always boring...you missed the signs. She is a shitty chick, but if the shitty chick liked you, she wouldnt be shitty.
Also, keep in mind OP fucked this chick years ago and disappeared on her. Could just be payback.
THIS makes a huge, massive difference in the story and what happened.