So we all know how awkward it can be to go for the K-Close, even those with a lot of experieince sometimes misjudge and push for a Kiss without enough comfort. Next thing you know you have created an odd "vibe" between you both and it time to kick that frame control into overdrive to save the situation.

I have a tendancy to get over over Cocky Funny, When I first started out I found it quite uncomfrotable to use standard K-Closes that involved speech as I would often make the situation a little too funny rather than seductive. And soooo I came up with this little routine, which I have used ever since. I also know of a few top PUA's who also use my routine now, just cos it's easier.

Ok you have built the situation up to a point where you think it would be ok to go for a K-Close, maybe you are sure, maybe you aren't either way you can give it a go.

Wait for a moment when she says something funny or emotional, (Create it if need be) You are looking for a point in the conversation when emotions run high. At this point say something like;

"Wow, thats amazing!" or "Aww, come here you"

Then give her warm hug with both arms wrapped around her and then, kiss her on the cheek. (Kiss one)

Lean back, but keep you hands wrapped around her slightly, maybe holding the sides of her arms. Lean in again, this time to kiss her other cheek.(Kiss two)

Maybe emphasis this by placing your hand on the opposite cheek from the one you wish to kiss, or by her head. Make sure you are going to kiss her cheek and not her lips, (Unless its blatantly obvious she wants you) You should be watching for her body language. Did she angle her head towards you? Did she close her eyes in passion, If so then you can be pretty sure she is ready for a full Kiss.

If she gave some indication that she definately did not want to go for the full kiss, perhaps angling her head away from you, or moving back slightly. then you can simple take a step back and continue building comfort, then try the same routine again later.

If you did get some positive signs, or couldn't assess properly then go in for another kiss back on the first cheek you kissed. (Kiss three)

This time however, make sure you go via the front of her face, enabling her or you for that matter to move in for the full k-close if it "feels" right.

Again if it doesn't feel right you can simply move back and begin building comfort until you are ready to try it again.

This way you should be able to judge how much comfort you have generated without giving the game away.

I once went in for this only for the girl to give no signs of interest. I backed out and suggested meeting up during the week to see my favourite restaurant, and get her phone number to make it a "date". After the number close I repeated the routine and this time all the signs where there.

Sometimes you can be soo close to having the correct amount of comfort, but be just shy enough to get the close. This way you can judge it a little easier.

I hope this helps guys!

Any Questions ask away!


AFC AdamLondon