I'm not normally one for introductions but why the hell not?

To start, I'm a 20 year old student studying in East London and live in Essex 30 mins away. I saw Uni as a fresh start for me after a rocky year socially and now I'm ready for more. I've been reading the game by Neil Strauss and I'm on part 10 SPAM.

I've made out with some girls but often it was because I just saw it as luck. I came to this forum because I want to be in control of my interactions and experiences, for example going to a bar/club or party and getting intimate with a girl, and keeping things going the next day.

I'm inspired by Style & Mystery but along the line I want to find out what makes me tick and build on that, so I'm open to learning new things from you guys.

Welcome to the community and be sure to re-read STEP 4/ Chapter 2 of The Game (pages 115-121) This section seems germane.

I find The Game by Neil Strauss to be the Holy Grail of Pick Up. Sure there are a myriad of other systems but it is the guide that resurrected the Pick Up Scene and appealed it to the masses.

Take what works for you and utilize it to develop your own style. In other words, put together the techniques that work for you and create your own system of Picking Up Women based on the methodology passed down to us from our Gurus. Do what works for you man and what makes you feel good.

You're in Uni so really get out there and experience life all while keeping your focus on achieving your goals and completing your education. Maybe even travel a little bit. The best advice I can give to you is pursue your dreams and make your goals become a reality. And to do this you have to first make the decision and commit to it. Try not to be "on the fence" with things so much. Make a decision and stick to it. Women love men that are not indecisive and have too many vacillations but rather are into men that possess confidence and certainty.

All I can say is fail, fail, fail. Failure can lead to success. When you fail reflect on what went wrong, pick yourself up, correct your mistakes and improve your condition. In all, don't relay on luck but on control, confidence and communication.

Best of luck to you and Cheers!

Welcome to the forum.

Here are some resources to help you get started:

GUIDE FOR GUYS JUST STARTING OUT

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GUIDE TO OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF YOUR FIRST APPROACH

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If you need a mentor, I'm currently offering some free coaching. You can message me if interested.

Good luck,

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