hey guys , so i reached the hook point with this girl im haning out with , and i know this becouse a couple of days ago i froze her out compleatly and not even for that long , for a day and a half........i would get texts like " hey do u still reamber me " and "are you mad " "whats wronge" ...........so anyway .....i got back to texting her and hung out with her wednesday...........ok so thursday night she sent me a text at night and i didnt respond to it....instead on friday i sent her a text around 11am saying " try not to smile when u read this" with of course i got a good response (thanks to whoever came up with that by the way , i read that on this forum) .........so then she asked me waht im up too....i was in class so i didnt respond and instead wrote back 2 hours later saying......." busy tonight ? , lets hang out " in which she did not reply at all , and i wasnt about to ask her again ........so the whole day whent by and at 7 pm she texts me "whats up ? " so i decided to punish her and tell her what im acctualy doing .......and i wrote " im getting ready to go grab some coffery with the girl that spilled her coffery on me " if i had reached the hook point with her she would care and she obviously did :

long story short some girl bumped into me in the hall and spilled her coffery on me earlier this week inwich she offered to get coffey with me some time but i declined but then i saw her again friday after class where she asked again and i accepted.

back to whats going on.......... so the girl im seeing replys "are u seriouse LMAO" -- showing me she cares, and im like yea i bumped into her after class (so she knows that this was AFTER my text to hang out in witch she could have repled ) and then she kepts texting me telling me what she is doing and i dont reply for a bit and she writes "omg and i interupting you on ur date lmao" and i told her "no cuz im not rude like her (she texts when we hangout , but i called her out on it and she stoped) and that i keep the phone in my pocket till i go to the bathroom" after an hour she writes "hows the date going" and i write " fun ! lol this girl is sorta a geek and "doesnt get out much" so ima take her to a bar and show her a great timelol " ..........and she reply ...."lol how old is she"............... this is where i am and here is my question............today is saturday and i do wanna hang out with this girl...............but i dont wanna sound AFC by asking her to hang out two days in a row..............

so i came up with a clever way to ask and at the same time DHV and this is it tell me what you guys think ! : "hey so are we haning out tonight ? or am i gonna have to find another girl to take out ? again"
if you guys can come up with a better way to get her to hang out tonight plz let me know !

I don't like that at all. It says to her that she's in control. You're waiting for her and if she decides not to hsng out with you, you're stuck having to find something else to do. This makes her completely in control regardless of whether or not you can find another girl. Try switching it up to make it seem like her not hanging out with you would be her loss, not yours.

Tell her a place where you will be, if she shows up, get her to bounce from there. if she meets you there, excellent. if not, find someone else. She sounds looney.

B-Sweet

ok good point , but how would i do that ? what should i say ?

Instead of asking her if you're hanging out, do what sweetw said and just tell her you're going to be out tonight and say "you should come." If she shows up, she's interested; if not, it could mean that she's not interested or she's just too busy. This way though, you're not coming off as needy. Good luck!