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That's what I was thinking. I'll leave it and see what happens. So if the worst happens and she just says she can't, without offering an alternative, I'm guessing the best bet would be to just forget about her?
You have no choice but to leave it. You acted desperate, and disrespected her by saying she wasn't busy.
That's needy, pushy behavior. If you contact her again, you'll look like a stalker.
Women value men who are emotionally-centered, slightly indifferent, and fun. Nothing about this exchange is any of those things.
Early on, everything we do and say sends a message to women. When we push too hard, they can predict we'll be needy. They have a term for that, "Stage Five Clinger".
A women gave you a "maybe" and said she was busy. You don't argue with her that she isn't busy, lol. You look like a jackass who never gets laid.
When I get a maybe, I text "cool, I'm good either way". At first, she might think you're a dick. But as the days go on, and you refrain from ever contacting her, she wonders why YOU could care less, and all these other pushy guys are blowing up her phone. And as they act weaker and weaker (like you did here), the guy who didn't really care all that much either way begins to look hotter and hotter, until she reaches out. When she does, you set a meetup at YOUR PLACE.
I have done this numerous times to "maybe" women. Then I back the fuck off and never contact her again. Sometimes they'll hit me back a few days later, sometimes a month, sometimes six months.
Remember, game is not always about "what can I get right now", but also about planting seeds for the future. This is how you cultivate and abundance mentality.
CHAT
" to further push it forward for what I'm going for. A lot of the reasons that guys fuck up is because they don't get the girl attracted and horny enough to act on her emotions to actually come and spend some time with you.