So I've seen this girl at school. She's a grade below me (Freshman) and I saw her in the library once. We made eye contact and exchanged smiles (this was before I knew about PUA). Well anyways she was really cute, but I was like whatever at the time. I had seen her a few more times and she looked at me with a smile. I was never nervous about talking to her, but now that I haven't approached, I have become overly nervous at just the thought of her. So I found her on myspace. I added her, and we talked for about 1 day. After this, I saw her at school, but never had a chance to say anything to her. But now that I have not said anything, I am way to nervous to approach. I want to, but I don't know what to say when I'm at school talking to a Freshman who I don't really know.

Please help. I know some of her friends, but I'm not BFF's with the Freshies if you know what I mean. I'm good with approaching other people, just her, she's somthing else.

If anyone has any advice for my situation, please let me know. I want to get over this fear of talking to her. If there is nothing you can suggest, thanks anyway.

Sincerely,
Cédric

aye whatss upp..???


i was in the same situation mann.....im still a newbie too, but i will try to give you as much input as i have.

if you talked to her on myspace, then there shouldn't be that thick of ice to break.

find out where she hangs out at lunch or after school, I think this would be the best place to approach her without thinking about being late to class or something like that.

and ill also give you some good advice that sweetw1982 gave me..

if shes in a group then "approach her friends not her, specifically the males in the group. impress them and you'll impress her. dont forget to neg her, when you shake her hand, tell her she has dry/wet hands or when she talks to you, wipe your face as if she spit."

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HAHA ya, cool. I love negs (my fave part) lol but I mean, I talked to her on myspace, but that was about 1-2 months ago. So, idk, again I don't know anything that I could start to talk aobut that the freshies would understand for an opener... so if you have any good simple openers for this situation, that would be great.

I'm thinking aobut approaching her this week, or monday (st. patrick's day)

use this opener, it's pretty good. field tested by your one and only hehehe!

walk past the girl you have interest in, stop, and look around and ask her;
Pua: what is that smell, is that you?
hb:what smell?
pua: are you wearing perfume?
hb: umm yea..
pua: what is it called?
hb:why do you like it?/ dolce or w.e
pua: it smells interesting, if i wear it i think alot of guys will like me.
hb:(laughs)
pua: just jk (cut thread) (stack convo)

this is an idea for your myspace thingy.
walk up to her and distance yourself.
pua: I need your opinion really quick.
hb: yea?
pua: remember when we were talking on myspace?
hb: uh huh?
pua: I forgot to tell you.
hb: what is it?
pua: my dad has three dogs, 1 purple one and 2 blue.
hb: what the hell?!?!!?
pua: yea its fuken weird..
hb: (hopefully she laughs)(cut thread)(stack convo)

Ya, I like both.
So you're saying, that if I approach her, I should still make reference to my previous "experience (or lack there of)" with her.

Ok, I'll definatley try that, but what if she is with a group of her friends, should I try to isolate her?
if so, how?



PS:
I like the idea of re-intoducing the whole previous myspace things, but are there any other things I can talk about besides colored dogs? lol
jw if you got anything else up your sleeve


Cédric

The thing is, you get nowhere by not doing anything.
Don't try to isolate her from her friends when you have not even given her friends a reason to give you a green light. Approach her even if she is with her friends. Use the opinion opener with a time constraint. Very basic but very important. Get everyone talking throw a pebble at your target. Finish the opinion opener and kindly ask her friends if you can borrow the target for a second. Grab her hand and isolate her. Do what you want here..lol...This will work unless you do not portray playfulness and alpha status. Don't forget to bodyrock and this requires the 3 sec rule. Approach anxiety will be a bitch...but you'll be glad you did it.

first off, thanks for all the help!

next, what's the opinion opener, is it an exact opener, or just like (ie) the dental floss, or whatev. Then, I go through that, they give me their reason, I could add my little comments, then what do I do? Do I go through another routine, or do I try to pull her away right then?

Cuz I can open pretty well, but I'm not sure about what to do directly after that.

As for body language and situation, should I act like I have a false time constraint?



Thanks,
Cédric

yes false time constraint is very important + bodyrock.
don't go to another routine because you might not have enough time. If you do have the time go for it, stack the convo and throw pebbles at your target.
try to find a way to make them all laugh while your in your opinion opener(yes opinion opener is like "who cheats more men or women?" in this case if your in school a great opener would be "did you guys here about the fight outside?" or any other opener you have in mind)
After you have successfuly made the set laugh, ask permission from her friends to borrow your target for a sec (make sure you grab her hand and lead her to an iso)

PS: the pebbles are to falsely disqualify yourself from your target.
since you have done that she would think that you are not a potential suitor. therefor isolating her would be alot more comfortable.

OK so I understand everything besides ur vocab in this, because I'm suer you don't mean literaly throwing rocks lol
hahaahahha

so if you could just explain, Bodyrock, stack convo, and throw pebbles, that would be great lol

lmao
yea dont litterally throw pebbles at her or she would get hurt and get pissed off ahaha.

pebbles are little negs, they are called throwing pebbles because you throw a neg and you go "throw and go". Point of this is to throw a neg without waiting for a reaction from her. ie. "wait let me finish talking gees is she always like this?" and quickly move on without waiting for a response. If you wait you'll show needyness so quickly move on.
bodyrocking is showing from body language that you are about to leave, kinda leaning to a direction away from the set.
and stack convo is moving to a new topic.

SO when I do isolate her, I'll do the whole myspace thing with flase time constraint. Then, how and when do I close?

I was thinking, "hey i gotta run, but you htink we could finish this sometime?"
that is if I get the IOI's.

Just tell me anything else I should add, and if one topic for the first group and then the myspace thing for her isolated is enough?


Cédric

the myspace thingy was suppose to only open her if she was alone. but i guess you can use it, then from there you can stack by saying
PUA:guess what my favourite colour is
HB:i dunno green?
PUA:(bringshand up and pretends to write on hand) note to self, do not date this girl. (DONT WAIT FOR A REACTION PEBLE)
PUA: anyways i gotta get going, I wanted to tell you something, guess i'll tell you later. you have a number?

HMM cool i'll try that for sure, see if it works

My only question is do I write it and say it out loud? or how do I get her to notice that I'm negging her.


Thanks,
Cédric

yea when you say it. make sure she hears it.
but make sure you say "anyways i gotta etc.." right away.. or else your going to seem like ur trying to be funny.