Doubt it.

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I would leave it as is, and if she messages about the screen again, wait for few days and tell her that your buddy came by and you used the screen to fix his phone. That would server her right for trying to use you for favors.

Don't waste any more time, unless she shows up naked at your door randomly, there is no hope, I would move on.

Leave it at that. Make her beg you to fix her phone.


You did the right thing by being indifferent, as nothing in the world happened. Let her contact you again, and set a meet time. On the day of the meet, tell her you have a date that night, but "let's try for another day".

I've handled women like this before. They love attention and validation and to toy with men. When you turn the tables, it gets them hot.

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You: I thought I still had the screen but I can't find it. Sorry.

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Disagree. Play her game, string her along.

She's one of those girls who will only respect you if your game is better. It's a fun experiment.

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Why not find out what she's really about? This girl is likely using him but there is a chance that she would want to see him either way. If he takes away the "excuse" and she continues contact, he knows which way she's leaning.

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Oh, I agree with you that he should see what she really wants. I'd just blow her off, first. She might be on the fence, and indifference can sometimes get her down on your side of the pasture.

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OP -

If she reaches out to you again but won't meet up at your place, set a time to meet her at your work, but don't show up. At all.

When she texts you "what happened?", answer THE NEXT DAY that you were "on a date".

I know these kinds of women. They need a bit of tweaking, lol.

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I really appreciate all the responses in this thread, Thanks alot!

Hehe, yeap. Can you tell that just by that small convo? Nice.
Her friend actually warned be earlier on that she was a big time man eater, and i should play hard to get or she would ditch me. He hold me, if you want this girl let her come to you.

And she looooooves attention, always have to be the center of everything when we were out with people.

She is very popular, so i felt like i rockstar beging with her when i could see her phone blow up with desperate guys blow up her phone and i was fucking her and inviting me to do stuff.

I actually played this game very nice, she always had to ask me if i wanted to come or when we both was out in town partying, i always waited for her to msg me to meet her etc. She had to do the work.

Things ending with a bad note, that's why am so keen to meet her just one time more. Because i know she thinks am very charming.

Before the last meeting which was the weekend trip, her best boyfriend told me that he was so glad that she had met me. And she agreed, she told me that she felt so safe and calm together with me etc, and that she never have felt that so quick...

Her bestfriend and best boyfriend was dating, and they invited us on a trip. I managed to later on the last evening dancing dirty with my hands om her ass grabbing her hard many times with her bestfriend on front of her bestboyfriend which was dating her and the girl i was dating.. i also managed to call her dead sexy 2-3 times earlier that evening, wanted her to feel good because she was arguing with her date.. I didnt ment it on a bad way, and the dance thing was just for fun, but i know it was inappropriate. To top it all up, i later told her that evening that i was done playing games and that i like her really much. She told me that she agreed, and hate playing games but i know that was bs. I got conpletelt needy.
I remember waking up next day with omg, i fucked it so much up. I will never forget that, haha. Talk about fucking up the picture she had of a stabil and calm guy. So i know why she ditched me, i wasn't the guy she thought she knew, and the dissoriantaion became to big.

Anyway, i have told her that am sorry for what happened many times after she told me she felt humiliated, but now you know why i want to see her again to Maybe change the picture of me.

I will do what you say, Thanks for the tip!
Tell her sorry cant meet you today because i have a date that game up, and arrange another day with her.
Haha, she would be so shocked if i write that. Because she thinks i will do everything for her.
She loves playing games and attention.

Yeap, will do! But the reason i said tell me a time and i will see Where am at was to make sure i can tell her am home the time she purpose without telling her i want her to come home to me, and not at work without sounding needy. :p

So meeting will be at my place i hope, i will follow your other tip.

I'm just curious whether you understand this will end badly for you if she doesn't sleep with you, and worse if she does.

Do you?

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I read this and didnt realize events had updated so thought you were wrong here. After reading the events, ie her flaking it makes sense.

OP, you cant be mad that the chick didnt come over. Look, if someone asks to stop by my place for a favor, I'm fine with that...I'm not putting off plans for them to come at a certain time, I'm not waiting for them at a certain time. I'll tell them a time, if they come they come. If they dont come, I'm not even pissed or care, because I didnt care in the first place. This is why you're pissed. YOU CARE WAY TOO MUCH. To do a chick a favor, you made a thread online, you waited, you overthought text messages, you keep repeating details from months ago. TO FIX A FUCKING SCREEN.Or heck, the possibility of fucking an old chick. Wtf man. You care way too much.

Now, I'll say the truth; you're a whim to this chick. She dumped you for an old flame. She dumped you again because you danced with her friend. Then months later she hits you up for a phone screen, which cool, lets assume she was coming for sex...she then has so little respect for you that she doesnt come. As Rc keeps telling you where the fuck is your self respect?! You're a toy to this chick. Always were and still are. Sure, you may have been charming, and charming will get you somewhere, but having standards and respect is essential. You don't have these things. She knows it at this point.

You dated this chick for what...3 weeks? 5 months ago? There is no need for all this reminiscing over what went wrong and how amazing it was over a fling. The guy who is fucking her, isn't walking around thinking I'm a rockstar BECAUSE of this chick. You didnt get dumped because you liked her or danced with her friend. You got dumped because you were the type of guy who would take back a chick who dumped you for an old flame weeks before and treat her as more than a hole.

Now, Arch's advice is good for these attention whores, but you dont have what it takes. Arch is coming from the frame of mind where he just wants to fuck this chick so he'll play for that. You love this chick or some shit. If she were to text you for 5 months and not meet you, you'd be ok with that and not say a word. His advice requires you to be able to reject her and not go running back. You'll flake on her and be the one to text first.

You had a fling and it ended. And instead of taking the right things away from that experience, you took the wrong things. You took "wow, that girl was so amazing...let me try for a while to get her back...omg I miss her, I cant ever find a chick like her again." Instead, you shouldve taken "man, that chick was an attention whore, and regardless of how hot a chick is, I refuse to let a chick do XYZ to me." That mentality wouldve put you in a better position with hotter chicks than your current "Im willing to do ANYTHING for a hot chick with a good job. She could have intimacy issues, she can dump me, ask for favors...I will do ANYTHING to get that feeling again." You need self respect and maybe instead of wanting a certain chicks for fun and cool friends, make some cool friends yourself and have fun. Because no chick wants to fuck or be with a guy who is envious of them.

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Yeah, i know. But the only reason i had for trying to Get her back in september when she ditched me was because i felt bad for doing what i did after she told me she had trust issues etc. I know she wasn't Nice but i did fuck up also.. I would never had tried to contact her if i didnt do anything wrong.
Anyway, i'm over that now, i just tried to tell the full story.

I'm not that needy, i asked if she wanted to meet in early november. Havent tried to contact her since.

I have no problem doing what arch suggested.. I wont text first if i flake on her.

She has started to send snaps again yesterday also after 2 months of no contact, weird. She stopped doing that after i contacted her in november.. I haven't responded on them or sent any in return. And Yeah, i know she send that to many people, not just me.

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