Ok, so I know this forum is all about picking up women not letting them go, but I gotta ask.

I'm married and while my wife is open to me seeing other women, the fuck buddy has become quite attached emotionally.

When I want to let go of a woman, I never just break them off suddenly. I always see them less and less often and make my dates more and more casual over time (hotel visits turn into cafes).

I have been telling her I am busy lately as well.

You should learn how to spell. Its quite unbecoming.

Dude, I know it is spelled "busy". It was cold as fuck outside and I typed this message on my phone with frozen hands.

What a judgemental dickhead you are. The rest of my message has no spelling errors, so why not logically assume that it was just a typo?

By the way, the "U" and the "I" keys are right next to each other on the phone keypad, which makes it a common mistake when typing and posting quickly...ffs.

So recently I sarged a couple women on the street and just straightaway told them to put their numbers in my phone (I never ever ask). Right after getting their contact info in my phone, I tried to take them to a love hotel directly by just saying something like "There is a really relaxing, cool place I want to take you to, let's go."

One of the women said she was busy, but the other did let me take her to the love hotel.

I realize that most people on here will either sarge fully focused on full closing and only get contacts if a full close looks unlikely for that particular time.

I just thought that I could just get their contact info first in case they are busy or "busy", so if they brush me off of full close, I can just contact them later.

This method only worked for me once so far, but I have only been sarging this way for a couple weeks. So far it seems to mostly not work that well because the women use the contact info they gave me as an excuse to meet with me "next time".

Does anyone else do this and have you guys had any success?

This was a post I made a little while back and guess what? I know how to spell the word "busy" after all...you are just probably trying to be an asshole for no fucking reason.

And here is yes another post I made:

So recently I sarged a couple women on the street and just straightaway told them to put their numbers in my phone (I never ever ask). Right after getting their contact info in my phone, I tried to take them to a love hotel directly by just saying something like "There is a really relaxing, cool place I want to take you to, let's go."

One of the women said she was busy, but the other did let me take her to the love hotel.

I realize that most people on here will either sarge fully focused on full closing and only get contacts if a full close looks unlikely for that particular time.

I just thought that I could just get their contact info first in case they are busy or "busy", so if they brush me off of full close, I can just contact them later.

This method only worked for me once so far, but I have only been sarging this way for a couple weeks. So far it seems to mostly not work that well because the women use the contact info they gave me as an excuse to meet with me "next time".

Does anyone else do this and have you guys had any success?


Well, will you look at that...I even spelled the word busy correctly two times in that post.

If you are so anal about spelling then why not change your username to intothevoid jackass.

Needy women want attention. If you don't give them their fix, they'll get it from someone else; not unless you're great in bed. In which case, they'll have a tendency to get overly obsessed, get into stalking, and entrap you into unnecessary drama. If you're being stalked by a needy woman, one great way is to give her a positive closure. I do this by giving a needy woman a small token of my affection that she can touch and hold when I cut her off 100% from my life. Gifts such as the book, 'The Little Prince' by Exupery, work wonders.

As for the pull to the 'love hotel', your isolation rate is a high 50% which is 1/2 girls for one sarging instance. If you haven't fucked the girl during isolation, you'll have to polish your comfort building technique and build enough emotional connection. Are you rubbing her breast or nipple in a covert manner? If not, get physically close next time and see what happens. If she doesn't pull back from your invasion of her personal space, you're doing really good with comfort building.

If she strokes your cock without issues, then she's already emotionally connected to your penis. Girls who get emotionally connected to your cock tend to be obsessive versus those who got emotionally connected with you through your common experience or sharing of your vulnerabilities. It's a caveat. But using your cock to build an emotional connection is quick and elicits strong emotions in women.

Men get mutilated by their members or murdered by needy women when they feel that they're about to lose their source of intense pleasure. Tread carefully when building emotional connection. It can make a lot of women needy and push them to murderous rage.

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Well, then I must be really good at fucking because this woman is like a monkey on my back. When we were at a love hotel last week, she pressured me into telling her when I will meet with her next week...pretty damn needy.

Anyway, it really turned me off and I know I will have to see her again but I will slowly see her less and less often and maybe intentionally be bad in bed to turn her off me.

Well, this love hotel is nearby and I have been taking my current 5 fuck buddies there. It has literally become my second apartment since I'm there half the week. This woman isn't stalking me or anything, but she is definitely in love, which is really bad.

She definitely seems like the type to get really pissed off and freak out if I break it off with her. I just hope she doesn't try to destroy my life in the future...

...Or decapitate your distinguished member.

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