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PostPosted: Sat Jan 07, 2017 11:54 am 
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So I went out for some day game today and got some contacts. So far two women have gotten back to me. I have a meet up set up with one of them and I told the other one that I would maybe give her a call on Monday night after work to set up plans to meet. She sounded excited because she replied "Let's do that, I look forward to it."

I usually teach private classes on Sunday, so I am usually busy and that is why I initially planned to meet her Monday night, but my student is not replying to my messages so there is a chance I might be free tomorrow after all. I realize now that I should not have done this but I texted her that I might not work tomorrow because I think my student is busy, so I might call her tomorrow or call Monday night if I do end up hearing back from my student later.

I know that women like a man that sets one solid plan and sticks to it. This is usually what I do, but this is the first time I have ever done this.

Anyway, I am thinking that regardless of what I texted her, I might be able to keep her from flaking on me if I don't call her or text her at all tomorrow and then just call her up Monday night?

What do you expert pua guys think?


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PostPosted: Sun Jan 08, 2017 5:44 pm 
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So nobody has ever done this even once huh?

Anyway, I didn't contact her at all today and I will just call up both women tomorrow and see which one is most down to meet up.


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Anyway, I am thinking that regardless of what I texted her, I might be able to keep her from flaking on me if I don't call her or text her at all tomorrow and then just call her up Monday night?

It sounds awfully cheesy to me to actively plan a way to prevent someone from flaking. They're either into you or they're not. And if their considering flaking, what makes you think they want to go out with you in the first place? And if someone isn't interested in going out with you, why do you still want to go out with them? With me you're either all in or you're all out. If you're unsure, I'll spend my time elsewhere and hang out with you when you get it together or make up your mind.

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Anyway, I am thinking that regardless of what I texted her, I might be able to keep her from flaking on me if I don't call her or text her at all tomorrow and then just call her up Monday night?

It sounds awfully cheesy to me to actively plan a way to prevent someone from flaking. They're either into you or they're not. And if their considering flaking, what makes you think they want to go out with you in the first place? And if someone isn't interested in going out with you, why do you still want to go out with them? With me you're either all in or you're all out. If you're unsure, I'll spend my time elsewhere and hang out with you when you get it together or make up your mind.
Yes, I guess you are right. I didn't really notice the cheesiness of it until I took some time to reflect on it.

Anyway, turns out she is into me because we went to a love hotel last night and hooked up. She later messaged me saying she had a great time and looks forward to meeting with me again.


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I wouldn't have changed it.
Yes, luckily things still worked out but I'm not planning on doing this anymore if I can help it.


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