So I took a girl out yesterday, and it was average, we went to the theatre (shes into Musicals and stuff) and had a pretty good time, had a couple drinks, then invited her to mine. The vibe was very friendly, and not sexually charged.

We get to my house and I start very light Kino, but I'm aware that we could only be there for 30 minutes or so, so kept it light and fun, still no lets fuck each others brains out.

I take her back to her house and as we hug to say goodbye, I just manned up and went for the kiss, even though that wasn't how the vibe of the date was. She kissed back, and it was good, I pull away after a few seconds and said

"I'm not sure where that came from, but we should definiately see each other again"

I felt like i pulled out of the kiss to fast, but either way she rolled with it and laughed and said Definiately.

We've been texting today and its very platonic, shes interested but I need that - "we need to fuck each other NOW" kind of vibe.

What could I do to escalate it to this by phone or text so she knows whats going down on the next date without coming across as sex obssesed.

Also what date would you go for as a day 3?

Why could you only be there for 30 minutes? And why did you choose to keep it light only because you only had 30 minutes to work with?
It seems like you're doing nothing on your part to escalate and yet you want some vibe to magically appear? You had drinks with her, had her at your place, and even went out with her? What are were waiting for? And why do you need some super sexualized text vibe? I've only shared "light and fun" vibes with the majority of the women i've slept with until it was time to get sexual. I'd be talking about politics, movies, music, or whatever just prior to physically escalating. There wasn't a sexual vibe necessarily needed prior. Women are often turned on by the way we talk, carry ourselves, and our attitudes. I've watched girls get turned on just because I was reading to them.

Perhaps you're looking for something to make it easier on you? But all in all you have to lead and make the move.

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Girls are rarely going to say "hey, btw can you fuck me"?

You're going to have to take risks. It saves you a tremendous amount of time and it destroys any friendly "vibe" that was being created. I've kissed about 90% of my girls that are friends. Either I friend zoned them or I banged them once and friend zoned them. Either way I found out if they were dtf or simply wasting time

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What kind of Vanilla milk and cookies bullshit is this? Are you trying to fuck a woman or help your grandmother to church?

You bring a girl home, where you can have drinks and escalate. But you rush her home as fast as you can so you can get sexual by text? WTF? But you don't want her to KNOW it's sexual like a mind trick? x2WTF?

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Her mum had a cooked a dinner for her and her whole family was over she couldn't be late!

I text her the other day, and we made very loose plans for "notebook (the movie) and tea" Thursday evening. She kind of left it as "yeah if i'm free ill let you know, but I am moving into my own place that morning, it depends when I'm finished!"

Shes literally on the fence trying to work out if she wants to pursue this or not.

I feel like I can message her saying "we still on for thursday evening?" which will almost be forcing her into coming over as she is polite.

Or would more of a "give a fuck?" vibe be better? "you get done moving in yet you hobo? If you're too slow I'm going to watch the notebook with one of my other hussys"

Both of these are congruent with my personality.

Or... wait it out... see if she messages me to bring up Thursdays date? It's Wednesday 11am where I am now.

My god man, do you even have a penis?

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Lol. This is Nice Guy Syndrome battling biological need for sexual intimacy. I used to do it in my early 20's, where you're not being aware and/or honest with your needs, the immediacy of life, and basic science.

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Just start talking about sex.

You are over analyzing this situation. Don't think too much.

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I get the feeling the OP is in high school

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