I think that you thinking this deeply into it to the point in which you're making a forum post about is not going to help the overall "nonchalant" attitude that has contributed to her attraction to you.
You don't need help man. Changing anything at this point only changes how she responds to you. Keep doing what you're doing and physically escalate at your leisure. And then do the obvious, kiss, hang out, and invite her over to yours for day two and its a done deal.
Im not sure why you need advice on a girl thats letting telling to make a move and she's yours.
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