Just curious and actually little confused as to what should I do if for e.g. I'm clubbing with my gf and then some really big guy comes over and puts his hand around my girl. Or starts hitting on her or wants to buy her a drink, all in my presence.


This has never happened to me before but if it does, what's the best course of action?

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Punch him in the face and then say your prayers.

Nah but on a serious note, what course of action? He's a dude that's hitting on your girlfriend and happens to be big. It's her job nonetheless to shut him down.

You don't step in unless he crosses the line. And that never really happens. If it does, it's not because the dude is big but because he's socially retarded and various kinds of stupid. In which case you can diplomatically tell him to fuck off, aggressively tell him to fuck off, or have a bouncer tell him to fuck off.

Just don't get into fights. You'll look like a tool and probably get your ass kicked too.

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Thanks for the answer.

Was looking for that "it's her job to shut him down".

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1st let her enjoy the free vodka & cranberry, or 2, that shit is $10+ at the club.

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If your girl respects you, she'll react immediately. There won't be much you have to say or do but give him the look and a little shake of the head.

Why are you thinking about this though?

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I was thinking about my weaknesses. One of them is that I don't like to engage in unnecessary conflicts but on the other hand I though: If I don't react or engage everybody would think I don't stand up to whats mine.

I hope you get what am I saying.

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Some girls would like for you to "back her up" in a situation like that, same as pretending to know a guy even though she doesn't just to get away from a situation. Not all girls know how to handle guys hitting on her but usually they are the shy/weak ones, i assume you don't date them... The confident once have no problem shutting down guys...

Now if the guy stays there really touching your girl in your presence and she says fuck off and he doesn't its time to step in, maybe tell him to fuck off yourself and if is like, or what? its time to get physical, getting your ass kicked is better than laying in bed thinking about your girl and you getting dominated by some guy...
she will respect you more then just taking it...

I don't like fighting either but sometimes after trying to fix it verbally its all you can do to keep your selfrespect.

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I almost took out a guy last night for this. He and his pals were having a sausage fest 'round the pool table while I was bowling with my girl. They kept checking her out, and when she went to the bathroom a big dude hit on her. I stared him down, and he and his pals grabbed pool cues, haha. My gf grabbed me and pulled me away.

It all depends on context. If it's blatantly disrespectful, I will put the fucker on his back. Last night was close.

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Arch this type of shit seems to happen to you on a regular basis. Maybe your venue choices are the problem.

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It's my girl. All eyes are on her when she's in a room.

But yeah, drinking venues don't help.

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Yeah if your girl respects you and is obviously into you, guys arent going to come into your situation for an obvious rejection. If guys are coming up, your girl probably has wandering eyes or was eye fucking someone and they saw an opportunity. Ive approached girls with their bf there, but thats because the chick was eye fucking me or they seemed to just be friends. If your out with your girl, and she's obviously with you and her attention is on you and guys are still coming up, thats venue. You're in a place where guys are looking for trouble and conflict.

Thanks everyone for answers.

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True dat.

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