Yeah I see what your saying. And now I changed perspectives. I'm willing to put out for a room if needed. However, I will explore other options creatively before hand.

Update:

Hey all, so I'm closing in on meeting up with her Friday. I wanted to ask you all what you thinks a good thing to do with her. Should I take her to eat, ice skating or just a stroll through the park or beach. Mind you it's a bit chilly out here. Also I'm trying to figure out where I should meet her. She said to just let her know where to meet. I was thinking of just telling her to meet me where I live and then we can just get in my car. This way she wouldn't have to drive anywhere. Let me know your thoughts. I'm gonna hit her up tomorrow and see what the deal is for Friday.

Avoid dinners, restorations etc. at all costs. Coffee bar or any other local bar will suffice.

Although let her come to your place first, then drive both of you's in some nice bar. It's important that you are the one who's choosing. Remember: Always lead.

Choose the bar, choose where will you sit, I always pick something so I can sit next to her (if chairs are separated then sit against her) because I can get in contact with her more easily, I can physically escalate more easily, etc.

When asked what will you have for drink, have already one in mind. After the drink, don't ask her 'what you wanna do?'.

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Awesome! As for your last sentence "After the drink, don't ask her 'what you wanna do?" I assume from there we can go to the beach for a walk or back to my car and drive to a low key location and escalate?

You just want to have sex with her and nothing more right?

Do you want us to fuck her for you, too?

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Hahahaa funny

Update:

Alright so things are concrete with us meeting. Made a text exchange that went like this...

Me: Hey... meet me at xxRoad, NY.

Her: Ok where is that exactly u know Floridians use GPS.

Me: Of course... 44 Stugard RD, XX NY xxxxx

Her: Got it. See you tomorrow

Me: Sounds good

Her: I don't wear bib shorts

Me: haha funny

Her: No offense

Me: None taken... might actually look kinda hot if you can pull them off.

Her: I know right lol. What are we doing tomorrow? Hint hint

That's it so far. And want to leave it at that since it's late. I hate doing text exchanges after arranging for a place to meet for a first date. I feel like it can sorta kill things so I hope she doesn't respond back and if she does I won't even respond back. I have a rule, no text exchanges after 11pm from chicks if we aren't hooking up that day.

Anyway, I'm psyched to finally meet up with her. Looking into having a solid time just have to find a spot to take her.

Latest Update:

So we met!

Ended up taking her to Dave and Busters for arcade games and drinks. It thought it was cool but she was a bit over dressed for it with shoes on and all while I was just sporting Addidas lol. It took of well, I don't think she was much into the Dave and Busters spot though. I thought it would be a great place to break the ice and get comfortable, move around etc. I was leading the entire time, touching her back, directing her with my hands etc.

After drinks I took her to one of my lookouts for a nice view of the bridge and city line. It was cool, just us talking in the car getting to know each other deeper. We hit pretty much every topic to the point where I got her talking about sex and we exchanged some experiences from there. I tried to makeout with her and she wasn't having it. So I kept it moving, laughed it off and proceeded to talk with her more. I then made a second more about an hour later into our conversation and she wasn't having it. Girl was tough as nails. She said she wanted to take things slow and there was no rush and all. I get it and respect that but after she told me her sexual experiences which were way more than mine I was surprised she wasn't trying to get it on. She kept talking about her X-boyfriend which was so annoying but I listened.

Later that night we left the spot there and I drove her back towards my place where she parked her car. I invited her to breakfast but she instead wanted to go home. Afterwards we were sitting in her car waiting for it to warm up. I setup a day two on the spot for next week for us to go out again. She agreed to and we'll see about that. I went in for a third kiss close and she wasn't having it again. Only this time I kept my face in front hers and began to kiss her neck, and grab he leg. I proceeded to try connecting her lips but she brushed noses with me instead. I got her moaning and she was pretty open at that point. She then said nooo we can't we should wait. I say I said wait for what? She sigh'd... I then said ok and backed off. Not wanting anything afterwards.

She then left and text me when she got back that she made it home. - Done.

So yeah, cool girl, would love to meet up with her again if given the opportunity. I guess we'll see. What funny is that she told me she told her mom and he best friend about me which I thought was weird. I asked her why did she do that. She said they were excited that I was going out because I don't. She said it's been three years since she's been single. I'm glad she didn't ask me because I've been single for 2 1/2 years no sex at all hahahaha.

Man, how the fuck you gonna spend 4 months and all this advice for this shit? You're single for 2.5 years and no sex? She's single 3 years and wants to move slow? 4 fucking months later? Man, chick is nuts and probably shit. Anytime you hear a chick single for that long, she's more trouble than she's worth. 2017 in 12 hours, fix your shit and stop wasting time on these shit chicks. You put the work into yourself, 2018 can come around and you can be a whole different man.

Dude I'm with you on that my man! New year new things. Going to a New Years Eve party tonight with peeps so it's gonna get lit. Cheers everyone and Happy New Year!