God no. Just Fuck no.

There's something wrong the way to approach them then. Even sometimes I got that "boyfriend card" and I answer:


"He could buy us a drink"

"So. How's the perfect relationship like?" - There are no perfect relationships.

But most of the times if girl does mention her bf It means you'll have more difficult time making her pussy wet.

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This "I have a boyfriend" response just runs and runs. Heres what I use and have used to good effect for years.

1/ "Ok" and then just ignore it and carry on.

2/ Just ignore it and not say anything at all then carry on.

3/ "Do you have his permission to talk to other guys?".

That's all you need to know. If it's an autopilot response then you have bypassed it. If it's the real deal then she will mention it again between the window of 5 and 10 minutes into the conversation. If she does then just bale as a time management stratagy.

Ok most of my day time approaches are in supermarket or retail stores.....If they say they have a boyfriend the conversation just dies - but literally all of them are polite about it. (Not that that means anything). So can you help on what I should say after this? What would you say?

I often just say "ok" and in a tone that conveys that it isn't a big deal she has a boyfriend.

Or lightly neg her about her being in a relationship.

One other thing I do is if I notice her being awkward or nervous, I will assume the boyfriend bs is possibly coming. Try to make her feel really comfortable around you early on but later is ok too.

I noticed that if a woman is into me and comfortable, she suddenly "forgets" about her boyfriend/husband/etc.

In fact, I might take a married woman that has children to a love hotel today and everytime we talk, she never mentions her husband. She only mentioned him during our first talk, but I made sure to end that shit right away.

Anyway, I wish you all the best!

You don't need to say anthing if you have muscles:



Men's health.

The best "boyfriend destroyer" is to be more masculine and attractive than the boyfriend.

People are always looking for magic words or magic texts.


Doesn't exist.

You begin creating the magic by reading widely and weight training, while following the principal rules.

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I have a habit of mostly not caring what women say, true or not.

Just focus on her trusting in you not the other way around and then fuck her when she does.

Cheers!

Not true.

First time i heard "i have i boyfried" was before a number close and all i said was "i promise to call you and you alone then". She did have a boyfriend but it was still nothing but a shit test and later confided in me the "a girl looks for something better".

EDIT: if she says :"I"M SORRY i have a .." then the sorry part is directed at you, it's a rejection. My post above was about the simple "i have a boyfriend".

Yeah I get that a lot....its a rejection yes. Fair enough.

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You have to gauge it on a case by case basis, but in some instances the 'i have a boyfriend' thing is a TEST.

Yes, this is true. In some cases: "I'm sorry, I have a bf" is also a shit test as well.

I have hooked up with women that said this to me at first.

Sometimes the fine light between a rejection and shit test can be blurry.

Ok when they say this the convo dies - what should I say? What would you do?

"Cool, I have one too."

humor, charm, teasing.

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