I've been noticing a lot lately that girls develop a trust with me that I have always wondered about in the first meetup. It's weird. Maybe it's my smile or the way I communicate (strong case IMO) but lately I have noticed what it was. Sure, a part of it is emotional connection but a part of it is that I mean no harm. Not mentally, not physically and not through the use of manipulation or any of that.


If I see a girl, and we talk, I become enamored by her. The girl feels it, she knows I don't mean to be a d-bag and she lets her guard down quickly. Girls tell me things that they don't normally say because they know it's between them and me. I really don't go around telling people business, it just never occurs to me. I also don't talk about my sex life and who I am fucking. I just have a bunch of condoms in my top dresser and I usually just excuse myself and say I have to get a condom. It's not a stumble, it's not a hesitation, it's more of a yep I have been here many times and I know where they are 10 second maneuver.


Maybe it is the body language. Maybe I do love women and don't mean to harm them. Maybe women understand this and it's a feeling they haven't had in a while...maybe just maybe...make them feel like the only girl in the world.

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I can relate.

It's just this oozing feeling. It's like you create a bubble which contains only you and her. And everything that will be said or done will stay inside that bubble that has nothing to do with the rest of the world.

It's magic.

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Also, I can't explain and I don't mean to brag. But this mindset of creating a bubble had led me to have sex pretty fast with girls in a span of two to three days.

And even if I tried to explain what I do, I couldn't do it, hence 'the bubble' metaphor should compensate for my lack of words to describe it.

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No it's definitely hard to describe. I slept with a girl who I was her only second man ever and she was only 22. Even her friend was like "damn, you're the only second dude and you got her on the night you met her".



You still have to be careful if you manage to recreate this speed seduction. It leads to feelings quick. I've grown to be more aware so I'm usually the one setting the pace. The girls usually try to lock me down after 3 dates, especially if we had sex 3 times.

Just keep it honest and the girls will never hate you.

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There is something to be said about being in the moment. There's a lot of guys here that put in hard work just for the lay and are on steps 1 then 2 then 3 then 4 when the sweet spot is establishing that you think the girl is attractive and then flirting with them and not be overly concerned with sex. You flirting with her becomes what she enjoys and in turn she'll flirt back. That usually turns into mutual attraction and that leads to sexual attraction.

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Yes, it's just much positive vibe glued with your great personality and confidence. Add little humor, put some sexual innuendos, touching her, expressing your desire physically and she'll "get it".

The greatest MYTH that's holding today's men back from getting laid is the mindset that they NEED TO GO SLOW. And then men put that fake mask, "the nice guy" mask that slowly devours them until they become the real nice guy.

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A woman knows intuitively when she is in the presence of a guy who is looked on favorably by other women.

Put in the work that has women swooning over you and you get the results you're after.

I always thought I had a bad habit with playing with my food (or target) in a pickup sense but I enjoyed it and I guess I'll classify it as a positive thing. Being in the moment is great when you're not focused on the process. It's a tough thing for newbies and logical men, but nothing training yourself in self awareness can't fix

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