One thing that my wing advised to me is that sometimes the best transition is no transition. I think if you can manage to get into a few minutes of conversation by then you can just start asking the questions. When she asks why tell her she'll see in a bit to build the suspense. As long as you have a strong enough attitude and frame, she should comply.
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Do the Impossible
See the Invisible
Raw! Raw!
Fight the Power!
Touch the Untouchable
Break the Unbreakable
Raw! Raw!
Fight the Power!
A chronicle of my reformation from AFC to PUA:
http://simpua.livejournal.com/