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JackZero
PostPosted: Mon Dec 26, 2016 11:11 pm 
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I don't wanna lose her as a friend
This is why you'll continue to have problems. You don't really want her as a friend but you're willing to take what you can get. More than likely, it's in the hopes that she'll finally realize that she wants you for more than just a friend. So you'll play the role of the good little orbiter until she reaches that conclusion.

Bottom line is that you need to decide what you want from her and act accordingly.

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Arch Stanton
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Anyhow I got single and we hung out last night and I slept at her house and I tried to push/pull, but it didn't work, nothing happened.

Eh. Just go for the fucking kiss when you're spending the night at a woman's place. Either she'll bang you, or not.

You'd be surprised at what talking less and taking more action will get you. Attractive women can't stand men who talk too much. And if you're spending the night at a woman's place and not getting sex, that's exactly what's happening. Bla bla bla bla Therapist Boy.

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Trying to see how I'm gonna get myself out of the friend zone.

Reduce conversations, less hanging out, cancel on her and get her to want my wttention, not vice cersa , take the power from her hands.

How do you guys suggest I do that? The transferring the power from her to me I mean.

On another note, was thinking of buying the scrambler.
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Update:

Having a conversation with my boss and another guy on this board, I've decided to slowly disintegrate the perception she has of me.

We called today and I mentioned a mutual friend of ours and how she's so hot and how amazing her tits are (the target's girls tits are rather small comparative to the rest).

Apart from that haven't spoken to her all day and went out with a few mates to enjoy a pint.

Will see what happens in the next few days.
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We called today and I mentioned a mutual friend of ours and how she's so hot and how amazing her tits are (the target's girls tits are rather small comparative to the rest).
I like this honesty approach, but did you call her?

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We called today and I mentioned a mutual friend of ours and how she's so hot and how amazing her tits are (the target's girls tits are rather small comparative to the rest).
I like this honesty approach, but did you call her?
Shared a pic on messenger (humor) and we spoke and our usual routine is calling rather than chatting, so I called, still beta I guess, should have waited for her to ask to call me, anyhow learning curve.
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so I called, still beta I guess
Stop that shit

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Shared a pic on messenger (humor) and we spoke and our usual routine is calling rather than chatting, so I called, still beta I guess, should have waited for her to ask to call me, anyhow learning curve.
And you should have waited for her to messenger you. Contact is contact. So you messaged her, then called her?

Double needy.

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Shared a pic on messenger (humor) and we spoke and our usual routine is calling rather than chatting, so I called, still beta I guess, should have waited for her to ask to call me, anyhow learning curve.
And you should have waited for her to messenger you. Contact is contact. So you messaged her, then called her?

Double needy.
Totally agree, I've literally avoided contact with her after that, just made sure to mention the tits on the other girl before I did that, knowing her weak spot is tits.

Anyhow I've number closed a girl while on the job, got a date next week with her, awesome body!
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Still haven't heard from her, not going to start a conversation until she speaks first. It's clear that it's more a battle of persistence, she asks me to call many times throughout the day usually, so she's doing it to prove a pint.
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Still haven't heard from her, not going to start a conversation until she speaks first. It's clear that it's more a battle of persistence, she asks me to call many times throughout the day usually, so she's doing it to prove a pint.
Just stay busy pursuing those new options

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Btw, the tits thing just sounds petty. You want to convey to a girl that you have options, but this just seems like you were trying to get under her skin.

So to be clear, when I say gftow it implies that the subject girl is not one of them.

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Btw, the tits thing just sounds petty. You want to convey to a girl that you have options, but this just seems like you were trying to get under her skin.

So to be clear, when I say gftow it implies that the subject girl is not one of them.
Of course it doesn't include her. Re the tits, coincidentally we had mentioned her previously a day or two before, so it didn't come too out of the blue.

She knows she had me in her lap so she's not even trying, not willing to start the conversation again.

Any ideas on how I can confuse her a bit more? Nice then suddenly dull? Get a date with me next time we go out in a group?

Also please feel free to critique and tell me what you feel / think, I'd rather the cold truth.
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Btw, the tits thing just sounds petty. You want to convey to a girl that you have options, but this just seems like you were trying to get under her skin.

So to be clear, when I say gftow it implies that the subject girl is not one of them.
Of course it doesn't include her. Re the tits, coincidentally we had mentioned her previously a day or two before, so it didn't come too out of the blue.

She knows she had me in her lap so she's not even trying, not willing to start the conversation again.

Any ideas on how I can confuse her a bit more? Nice then suddenly dull? Get a date with me next time we go out in a group?

Also please feel free to critique and tell me what you feel / think, I'd rather the cold truth.
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