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PostPosted: Tue Dec 20, 2016 11:34 pm 
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Guy chasing you for a year equals desperate

You keeping in contact with guy is attention seeking.

If a guy is socially retarded, a jerk and bothers you...why continue that for a year? To feel desired. He's desperate but you're desperate for attention. Why do you always keep associating with losers yet act like that doesn't reflect badly on YOU?!



I don't keep in touch with him. He keeps in touch with me. I've ignored his texts, calls....he caught me in the street last week asking for another favor and I brushed it off and quickly hurried away.

I'm not an a-hole to block a person and act like a douche.....unless the person is a douche himself.
He is socially retarded but not a jerk.

Just someone that really needs the PUA community to open his eyes.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 21, 2016 12:11 am 
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He talked so much, including how cheap the beer at the place was, and how pretty I was....yet offered me 0 drinks.
And the pattern reemerges. :roll:
Different strokes for different folks.

Not sure why you have such a problem with my preferences, Jack.
I don't have a problem with it, actually. I hope you find that guy that will spend cash on you without you having to ask him to do so. If guys like that make you happy then I'd be happy for you when you get one.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 21, 2016 1:02 am 
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Guy chasing you for a year equals desperate

You keeping in contact with guy is attention seeking.

If a guy is socially retarded, a jerk and bothers you...why continue that for a year? To feel desired. He's desperate but you're desperate for attention. Why do you always keep associating with losers yet act like that doesn't reflect badly on YOU?!



I don't keep in touch with him. He keeps in touch with me. I've ignored his texts, calls....he caught me in the street last week asking for another favor and I brushed it off and quickly hurried away.

I'm not an a-hole to block a person and act like a douche.....unless the person is a douche himself.
He is socially retarded but not a jerk.

Just someone that really needs the PUA community to open his eyes.
Many women like yourself, enjoy keeping these loser guys orbiting due to the validation. Guy isnt a douche? He bothers you after you reject him. He tells you he beds 40 women after you reject him. You say you have a bf, he doesnt respect that. What's a douche to you then? A guy who hits you? Lets be honest, if the guy was awkward and you didnt want to, you wouldnt have known him for a year. You come here with these stories of these loser guys, and sweet you is just trying to be nice and give them a chance. Lol. Its a nice story, but I gotta be honest. Lol, you meet this guy, who by your own standards fails, but he gets your contact info? Guy hits on you, AND a few others, DOESNT get you your drink (which is silly but thats your criteria), and somehow YOU continue. Lol. How much can you value yourself when a guy could fail to meet your standards on DAY one, and on DAY 365 he's still around? I'm just saying, when a chick says he's an intentional bother and awkward, but I cant block him, its bs. You like the attention. I'm a guy, and if I said there's a bunch of loser girls who always chase me, that reflects poorly on ME.


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 21, 2016 11:06 am 
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Neo, I am almost certain you would not continue contacting a girl, even for friendship's sake, after she's repeatedly ignored your texts, calls, declined to help you, has declined your dates, blown you off, and so on.

You just wouldn't bother contacting her.

And a normal guy with some senses to himself would get the message long time ago.

And it's not giving him or her a chance. It's simply being respectful and keeping things civilized. Because resorting to nasty confrontations and putting block on a person, it's not my style.

So yes, I could put block on a person but in this case (bullet proof way, you're right), I don't want to make things awkward at the building I work at.


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