yo yo yo! I met a girl out clubbing a few weeks ago, but after two dates she stopped answering my texts. This has happend far too many times to me and i am pissed of as i am frequently told i am very good looking, which makes it worse because i feel i should be doing a lot better, sending me on a downward spiral confidence wise.

The last time this happend to me the girl seemed overly into me when we were out clubbing the first night, her and her friends were all saying how hot i am, she couldn't stop taking selfies with me and kissing me. After we went our separate ways when the club had closed she called me when she got in. We were on the phone for over two hours and she was clearly loving every minute being with me/calling me that night. Long story short I met up with her twice after that and all of a sudden she went cold. This pissed me off even more because i genuinely liked this girl.

Essentially i know in my own heart i am beta/afc/akward when sober and also very boring, essentially my inner game is dreadful, however i feel that when girls are drunk they do not see this in me. When we are both sober they then start to realise who i really am. I saw a thread on this forum essentially going over the troubles this good looking guy was having and everyone said that your personality and game does not match your looks which throws girls off. I am looking for some much needed advice on specifically how to match looks to personality and also any genuine inner game tips that you may feel will help, whether that be books or just techniques or advice. Thanks for your help in advance!

What exactly did you do for two dates?

Stop texting so much, lead and escalate when you're with them.

It's best to not really text a lot, a lot of the time it will put a girl off, guys with lots of options do not give a fuck about just texting one girl, if anything, you should have a number of girls in your pipeline, a simple few texts and an invite to yours for the night you have free for sex is much better for yielding positive results.

Do the newbie challenge.


Actually get out there and approach women and build yourself into who you want to be. You're looking for a quick fix answer on the forums because you think you're suppose to get the girl just like the good looking guy in the movies. Not how it works. Looks will get you a date; character will get you laid.

How many women have you approached in your life?

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Also, try to take girls home from the club that night as opposed to just getting a number and texting for days on end.

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Yeah to be fair i do have approach anxiety, and need to man up and seize the day ahaha. I have only once got a girl back and fucked her on the first night, so that area could do with some work, also im 20 so just moving out of that age where texting is the main bulk of any sort of relationship, cheers guys i know what youve all said is fairly obvious but the way my mind set is i just wasnt thinking in the right way! cheers for the eye opener