Ok, so a new Japanese woman that I took to a love hotel two times for a really great time suddenly sent me a strange, random message today.

She randomly mentioned how she had a boyfriend for 9 years and can't forget about him? Wtf? I verified that she is currently single, so I guess she is hooked on her ex bf still for some reason.

I would rather not pursue the reasons why, so I told her that I would take things slow and not take her to a hotel and that I want to meet with her this weekend. Once again, I was authoritative while still being polite in my tone. Anyway, she agreed and messaged me Ok and that she wants to meet with me this weekend, so that is good.

Anyway, my idea is to take her to a hotel anyway, but take her to a different hotel. If she calls me out on it, I will just say I meant I wouldn't take her to the same love hotel we already hooked up at twice.

I would take her to a really cool park with a fountain and places to sit, but it has been so cold lately. I could take her out to eat once in a while, but does anyone on here ever go on dates with sex friends or do you guys just make a point to have sex every time you meet with a sex friend?

This is something I have always wondered about.

Sounds like you are catching feelings for her

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Seeing as your handle is "Heywood Jablowme" you might understand.

I don't understand being dishonest and lying just to manipulate her into giving you your way. That only breeds resentment and a faster cool down of the situation if you would've spent more time explaining your position as opposed to telling her what she wanted to hear just so you can get what you want.

I don't want any pussy i have to lie to... It never feels as good. When you can be yourself fully, and be confident enough to position women to accept you for who you are, your needs, wants, and desires, they will be a lot more open sexually, and a lot less likely to be thinking about 9 year attachments.

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Yes, I understand what you mean. So either do not take her to a hotel like I said I wouldn't or have another talk with her about how I want to take her to one again.

As for my other question previously posted...do you have any sex friends that you meet sometimes and do not have sex with or do you have sex every single time you meet them, no matter what the circumstances?

I personally don't have sex friends.

All of the women in my life are actively pursuing me to enter committed relationships; and in doing so they're usually up to do whats necessary to keep me happy. So all in all it depends on how i feel.. If I'm only interested in the for sex i don't understand the point of accepting anything less.

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Yes, there is one woman in my life that I have sex with once a week, but she has fallen for me. She is doing everything to keep me in her life as did her friend (the ex sex friend that I distanced as just a friend). It gets cold here in Japan during winter and she decided to knit me a scarf lol. I don't really even wear scarfs, but oh well.

I am familiar with how some women will do things for men they want as an attempt "to keep" them. I am understanding the dynamics of these kind of relationships the longer I experience them in my life.

Do you often cut off women as soon as you know they are in love with you or do you create a sort of sugar mama type relationship with them?

I have had sugar mamas before, but it is never intentional to create this type of relationship. They just slowly evolve into this over time.

There is one other woman in my life that I can call a legit sex friend because we can both agreed on a no strings relationship of just sex.

Why do you call them 'sex friends'?

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I don't call of them sex friends. I call the one who agreed to only have a NSA,sexual relationship with me a sex friend.

I had a former sex friend that agreed to the same relationship, but she later fell in love with me and tried to change things up so I cut her off.

Whatever happened to fuck buddy? or friend with benefits?

Sex friend sounds weird.

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That is what they are called here in Japan...I guess I'm "turning Japanese" over here lol.

Yes, I used to call them fuck buddies, but I guess I have been in Japan too long.