If you're a fun, charming, fit, carefree, and sexual guy with big aspirations in life for yourself, you won't have that many issues drawing in women.

I see beauty in women that they don't even see in themselves.

Some of them are insecure because they aren't like other women, or they aren't like what society says is the standard of beauty for women.

I see what it is about them makes them beautiful -- the way they struggle to be themselves, to stand up for themselves, to battle with their own confusion, to seek safety and security .....

It's the stuff of poetry, it's just kind of hard to work this into casual conversation....

Also, some of them think that this appreciation of their beauty is just another carefully crafted explanation to try to get into their pants.

I guess appreciating someone's beauty is, at its core, just crafting an explanation to get into bed with them, but it seems more meaningful to me than corny jokes...

So, I'm just a confused guy who thinks he's nice....

Anyways, what drove you to come on here and browse this forum? I wish more women would follow suit. We might finally get to understand how people really think.....

Just got another piece of mis-addressed mail delivered to me..

I answered the door in sweatpants, hair all messed up, stain on my white t-shirt, wearing a flannel..

She seemed to be smiling at me deeply, but I was thinking "shit, i look like crap right now... just say thanks and close the door"

Not sure if it was the same girl, or her roommate .. She seemed taller than the other one...

This is becoming a monthly thing now...

I wonder if I subconsciously listed her address when I was filling out my info on a form.

I don't remember listing her address, but her address was on the mail, not mine. My name was on it. Guess I did my funny idea by accident.