In that thread I specifically said I don't have a need for people to look up to me. Plus it wasn't "ripped apart" at all.

Spreading lies isn't an alpha leadership quality. I'm not going to demean myself by getting into petty arguments with people who have no idea what they are talking about.

Which is an alpha leadership quality.

Having standards.
You also want to be able to lead others. Whoever says an alpha isn't a leader is a joke, and are not alpha themselves, and taking advice from a woman on how to be an alpha male is sort of backwards...

He talks about it in this thread: miscellaneous/why-millennial-men-are-fa ... 97019.html

Here is the definition of an alpha male: That's it. Women do respond to dominant men. Whether tyrannical, or caring gentlemen.

How come pimps exist? Or the term nice guys finish last? This isn't a marketing gimmick it's real life.

You the reader need to pay attention where you get your advice from. Many people just spout idealistic nonsense with no basis in reality.

That out of the way.

Being alpha can either come in the form of a tyrant or a gentleman. In my opinion the gentleman is a stronger version of an alpha male.

The tyrant is destructive and child like, while the gentleman is constructive and manly.

Qualities of a man:
Strength, protector, leader, mentor to other men, source of grounding energy, on his purpose and has clarity of personal vision and values, is self assured, doesn’t use reciprocity on people, in control of his own thoughts ideas, actions, and observes and uses his emotions wisely changing the patterns to fit how he wants to live his life, does not try to please and be accepted by others, can handle other people’s opinions without getting upset. Is grounded in his own self identity, accepts that most people are not consciously in control of what they are doing. competition with other men based in a powerful, masculine, secure maturity. respect mature, adult men and treat them as worthy allies or adversaries. ability to persuade based on credibility, authenticity, and wisdom personal power rooted in abundance. Treats life as new situations instead of reacting to past situations. Hold the idea of my individuality in my mind, and my universal connection to others. Knows that the more personal something is the more universal it is to everyone. Knows that certainty for women is made through the certainty to others that an experience with me will be enjoyable, not certainty about my life details. I’m an authority to myself. I self appoint myself to positions. I feature insecurities in order to overcome them. Uses forethought and plans future events all the way until the end with discipline and knows the odds are in his favor. Confident, feelings inside of strength, authenticity, and wanting to add to your woman’s life experience and joy. Takes responsibility for his life results, and happiness. Every day, wake up, choose what you want to do that day, and do it. Does things that gets himself into his body, and into the Moment. Self Concept. Self Assurance. Healthy Self Interest. Self Comfort. Has Comfort in the presence of...Class, style, refinement, Beautiful women, Power and high-status people, Paradox, uncertainty. Has composure in the face of... competition form other men, loss or setback, conflict or drama, tests from women. Clear path, values, boundaries when dealing with...others in influential positions, women they’re dating, other men, their own life. Love, temperance, humility, patience, justice, faith, fortitude. A balanced perspective. An attitude of non-judgment. An understanding that everyone has a positive
Intention. A powerful sense of self. An air of stability… the deep root, the strong foundation. TRUSTWORTHINESS. Doesn’t act “above” others. Laid back and unaffected by the opinions of others. Has a sense of culture. Keep a part of yourself “off limits” and totally unavailable to women. Accepts things as they are fully, no judgment – then sets out to change them. Can show his sword without killing people / using it. Doesn't need or use threats. Is the pillar of strength, security, protection in every situation. Allows, encourages, enjoys when others shine, win and progress. Needs nothing external to be happy. Abundance mentality, A man asks himself –where am I going, and who will go with me. honesty, fidelity, loyalty, compassion, empathy, and humility, a sense of thankfulness and wonderment for all that is right and good with the world. An unrelenting drive for evolution. Is the star not the planet. Mysterious Confidence. Humor. Wit. Charm. Sophistication. Leadership. Class. Chivalry. Style. Smoothness/Grace. don’t do. . .BE Pooh pooh bear!

Patience and balance. courage, sense of adventure, integrity, curiosity (fascinationw ith learning, growing, evolving), compassion for others and desire to contribute/make a difference, structure, carry the load of the family and society An air of approachableness. A “never let them see you sweat” attitude. An unwillingness to accept second class thinking and behavior. Mentor to younger men. Pillar of strength and security in self and values. Defender and protector of those less able to defend and protect themselves. Encourager and challenger of those not living up to their potential

root out boyish qualities including:

Lack of concern for others’ wellbeing. tyranny, manipulative behavior, whining, tantrums, lack of control, lack of forethought, anxiety, incongruence. guessing, wishing, and leaving things to luck, Correcting people because you need to feel important, Disagreeing with people to show your superiority, Being a "know it all" so people will give you approval, Saying and doing things to win attention and approval not to add value and genuinely help a situation. Envy, gluttony, sloth, pride, anger, greed, lust. Scarcity, on a quest for perfection feelings of superiority. Seeking instant gratification.

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Picture my quote by the season... "Limits don't exist if you don't give them reason."

This is what I live for.

That thread that you started and that people were quoting here is about desperation on how to be seen as cool, without actually taking any steps on improving yourself. Just find some bigger looser that looks up to you so you don't look so bad by comparison. That was the message. It's narcissistic, desperate and sad. This is the exact kind of thinking that i think is so destructive and ultimately useless.

The moment someone starts calling people by animal species like lions and rats, stop paying attention.

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These hos ain't loyal

The moment you think you are, your not.
It's like the gym, you could be a big bad Mother Fucker. But there's always someone somewhere that is warming up with your max.

Henery Winkler used to be the Fonz, not he survives on scraps tossed to him by Adam Sandler.

Just as everyone simply can't be "Alpha" anyway, who'd be the Alpha/Alpha?

The whole thing is flawed.

Pussy's

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

It's also a fucked up way to look at friends. In my circle, who is leading changes constantly. If my buddy grabs a bunch of tickets for us to go to a music festival, he naturally takes the lead. When I invite friends over to my house to pregame then barhop, I'm directing things, so on and so forth. I would hate to have a friend who was either running the show or combative when he wasnt.

We aren't lions, or wolves, or gorillas or fucking peacocks. What a lot of guys call alphase now is just being a dick.

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These hos ain't loyal

I lost the term alpha since the beginning of the year. It's pretty dumb. You can only be your best self and be assertive about your want and needs. If you're having fun while someone else is directing, who cares as long as that person isn't an ass to you.

I take the lead and sometimes let people take the lead without thinking. As long as we are having fun, that's all that matters.

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In a funk? Read this

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Exactly :p ! Being relaxed in what you want, what you like, etc and in doing so transmitting passion for those things, puts you 100 levels above all the men that are trying to be something they are not.

I've witnessed a cute thing some time ago, talking about making any subject in to a seductive one, of a guy who loved a certain game. The most nerdy thing in the World right? You would never talk to a girl about that right?


The point is that it's about transmitting the emotion with all the passion that you have for, in this case, a game. People around became fascinated by it all and in hindsight it's obvious: fantasy world=check, being in control of said world=check, being what you want to be and making it all about fun=check.

If it's possible to do this with games, then you can do it with everything IMO. Are there subjects that are better then others when it comes to seduction? NO. There are different WAYS of expressing and talking about said subject that will make the difference. What is that relation to that and "alpha" male"? It's that only an alpha can discuss these things while being relaxed and comfortable, while a beta feels it's a "wrong" topic"