At what point does age become an issue? I'm 29, turning 30 in March.

When girls start reacting badly. Then you lie and say 28

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I'd rather not lie.

At what age do they start reacting badly?

Depends on when you let yourself get out of shape. Age is just a number.

It means nothing, stop seeking another excuse. Say FUCK YOU to the easy way out!

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Self-limiting rule. So long as you keep yourself fit you'll be fine.

As some people might know I do a lot of dancing. At these dance clubs where we swing and do ballroom dances there are a lot of young girls, but there is always that pack of (5-6) older men. Women don't mind dancing with them because after 50 years they are good dancers, but also because after 50 years they have good game. The girls are laughing and having fun. And when your old your literally peacocking if you put on a backwards baseball cap it's both hilarious and endearing. They go back to the old folks home around 9pm though. Like I said you have to stay fit. With age comes it's problems.

At the point you make it.

Girls don't usually care if you are 3,4,10 years older, they care about how they feel about you.

How many women have you approached since joining this forum?

What are all the women you approach every day saying about your age?

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As long as you take care of yourself, girls won't care. Girls will flirt with hot guys. I've had chicks who are like ewwww older men, and somehow make an exception when I come into the picture. It's a joke.

Edit: Be mindful that you can't get every girl. Some girls will just turned off by the idea. That's life man, there's another girl who will be down for the cause.

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I'm 40.

I had a threesome two nights ago with my 21 year old girlfriend and her roommate. My gf is a 9/10, the roommate a 7.5/8.

Before the threesome, I was at the bar with both women. As usual, I didn't say much, mostly observed and listened. The bar was fairly packed, mostly with men. Here's what I heard from my gf's single roommate, and my gf:

"Everyone looks the same, all a bit plump and wearing sweatshirts. Dudes, please hit the gym".

"This is a low quality crowd"

" I wouldn't hook up with anyone here."

A guy came up to talk to the roommate. He was nervous. Their response:

"sooo awkward"

"weird"

"lacking confidence"

I cannot, and I repeat, I cannot emphasize enough that as you age, fitness becomes more and more important. I hit the gym every other day. I am not a professional body builder. I just have enough muscle (wide shoulders, arms, chest) that makes me stand out from a crowd of lumpy, frumpy men. I also don't wear sneakers, sweatshirts, or sports team memorabilia. This alone makes me stand out from 90% of men my age.

As the evening wore on, my gf's roommate kept feeling my shoulder and my arm, along with my gf. I then led the party back to their apartment, where they baked xmas cookies before everything went down.

It is so important to be fit. .. Yes, the inner game is just as important (cockiness, honesty). However, if you do not implement steps to stand out physically, you are going to be spending more and more time jerking off as you age.

Be what you want to attract. I'm attracted to fit, feminine women, so I do my best to be fit. It's very basic science of attraction.

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What else do they like about you besides your muscles?

Do you have money? Fame? Ever been in a band? Anything like that?

I'm not famous or rich, but I do work in a creative field. Not sure it has an impact.

Probably a combination of me just speaking my mind in a playful, fun way (not complaining, just startling honesty that cuts through mundane conversation), and a few muscles.

Also, having an ex come up to me at the bar while they were there didn't hurt. Women love it when their man is wanted by another woman.

I just apply the fundamental principles:

1. fitness
2. playfulness/teasing
3. emotionally-centered
4. bedroom skills
5. letting women text/talk most of the time.
6. focus on goals, purpose and hobbies that inspire me.

These are simple, clear steps that help separate a man from the vast majority of men who are frumpy slobs. Once guys hit 25+ they just all start to look the same. Losing your facial definition due to carb bloat is *especially* the death knell.

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