Back story:
So I've been dating a girl for just over a month. She said I was smothering her emotionally and physically. (Kissing to much, talking about future plans (nothing serious, more road trip in the future ideas)) she also said I was sometimes overstaying my welcome. Mainly spent the weekend there, I picked up on it and left. Any ways when she told me this I told her I was not interested in her other than romantically and to contact me if she changed her mind and left. As leaving she said that she liked me and wasn't breaking it off.

Regarding my question:
So two days after going no contact rule she hit me up asking how my day was, I replied and asked the same. Later I just ignored her text around 7:30 since her text just said what she was doing and where, I had no further reason to text/ interact. Next day same thing, then she asked me to lunch and I agreed. Lunch went well, she later text me saying she's getting her internet turned on Friday. I said cool, well have to watch netflix. Third day radio silence till she sent me a snap (6:30ish) of her saying she was going out with her friends for a Christmas party. She also posted it to her story. I replied "lookin sexy, have fun!"
She text me around 10:45 with a pic of a bong she just got out of storage. I opened but did not reply back. She snapped me this morning stating that she was sore from working out, I replied an hour later and she hasn't contacted me for 6 hours now after she opened it. I assume it's a test. I really don't know if I'm pushing her away since before the break we'd talk and snap 8 times a day or so. I'd also call after work and just talk about her day, which I have stopped doing. Basically all the contact I do now is when she says something and I text fairly small and to the point text. If it doesn't validate a response I go silent. I know you're supposed to ask her out if she text or calls you, I have not done this for I've already set a definite date last week with her for tomorrow night,my company Christmas party. Also a week ago she said it's like I forgot about her.

Questions: AM I being too distant? I know the phones for setting dates but I don't want her to think I'm a cold body. I am not great at text game, every woman I've dated in the last few years have said I text like I'm not interested. Far from the truth, I just don't like text and worry I text to much (3 times a day, playing it like tennis). I'm Phone call kind of guy but trying to give her all the space so she can come to me.

Well at least your boring her to death. She wants dick. Not a puppy. Send her this.

"If you were here right now I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you’re not, so . . .tomorrow... "

This boldly says exactly what your plan is after the party.

You have fucked her right?

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Yeah I have several times, she wasn't feeling it last time I tried. Loosing interest i thought. So I'll try it! Thanks!

Make her FEEL sexy. Boring is obviously repelling her. Can you follow up?

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Sounds good, I just sent it. I'll let you know when I know. Thanks for the advice!

This is why it's almost always the girls that dump the guys. So many guys display emotionally-uncentered, smothering behavior.

It's like freaking magic. See how this works? Nice job.

Meh. I'd hold off on the compliments for now. It's only been a month.
That's absurd.

Good. Now she's acting needy. The power has shifted.

Invite her over for Netflix. But frame it with "I have an important meeting in the AM, but it would be cool tonight".

She's likes the dickhead side of you, lol. Most women do early on, then they want sweeter mixed in gradually.

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Alright so she replied to the text.

Me: If you were here right now I would tear your clothes off and shove you onto my bed and have my way with you. But you’re not, so . . .tomorrow...

Her:
That was random lol

Are you home from work?

Me:Nah, just on break thinking about your sexy ass

Her: Awwwe

*So I probably should have left it at that. I ended up saying "so how's your day babe" which in retrospect was probably a poor decision. She proceeded to text like crazy, I later asked after several text...*

Me:Good, are you free to hang out tonight?

Hour and some change

Her:If you want to watch me do a bunch of chores

35 min later

Me:Nah, I'm gonna have to pass. I just realized I've got a few things I need to do.

Hour later

Her: okie

Honestly I should have waited longer but I felt it necessary to respond since it was end of the day. Probably a mistake. I'm not sure if that was a good take away not, had to work on my car and felt like she was not thrilled to see me, so why waste my time. Still new to this concept. I'm trying to break years of bad habits and get to be on top of my game.
Now I'm gonna wait it out and see what happens. I told her a few days ago I'd pick her up Friday around 6 for the party. If I don't hear from her by then, should I hit her up and see if she's ready or just go to the party? Honestly, I'm not sure I want her going. I figure I'm going to get pretty wild and probably not spend a lot of time with her till after the party.

Any thoughts are appreciated. Also any suggested reading material or just browse the post? I've read Corey Wayne's book so far but that's it.

Find other girls, and stop being a wuss.

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Close, but you went headlong into fail ......
Went to default as quick as you could? Sexy to boring that quick.
Replace this with: "I would invite you to come over, but I’m not sure I can keep my hands to myself."

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You could have seriously interrupted her chores, but yeah you need to establish that she can send sexy messages to you and your a judgement free zone. Women will otherwise speak in code. Women fear that a guy is going to sleep with them or even that they will say the wrong thing, and then the guy will run around screaming, "I had sex with Sarah, I had Sex with Sarah!" Thus damaging their reputation. However behind closed doors or on her private phone this rule won't apply if you establish that it doesn't.