This is cool. Any particular type of guy your looking for? Do you like PUAs? Have you read 'the rules'? I hate that book and didn't understand it at first, but maybe there is something that only a woman will understand. There is also 'the real rules' by Barbara De Angelis.
http://therulesbook.com/. Those books seemed like they were all about how to cock block yourself while keeping guys around. It seems like what you want is a manual of how to seduce a man and carefully balance the madonna-whore complex that a lot of guys get. 'The art of Seduction' by Robert Greene has case studies about various women and how they seduced men through out history.
http://www.winggirlmethod.com Marni has been in the game for a long time, you might learn something from her.
I will give you the same advice that was given to me, work on your physical appearance and personality. Be happy and have fun all the time. I know it's cliche but since men tend to lead you need to lure. Once you have them hooked you can probably talk to them in a way that reassures them. I also know from experience that status is important to study. Women with status tend to be desirable.
http://www.artofmanliness.com/2015/09/0 ... roduction/ See if you can't translate that into something useful.
So your comment about your friend is a classic sign of oneitis. I would study some techniques and realize that there are an abundance of men out there that really know how to lead a relationship. Are you going to start leaving pickup artist material around for your friend to read or what?
Guys can be thick sometimes. I myself have been on a couple stealth dates where the girl didn't tell me it was a date. Just ask him, "Hey this sort of feels like a date." If he agrees, then congratulations, if he doesn't then he is either in shock or just not that into you. Don't worry at that point because there are new guys out there.
A shot in the dark here, but your next step might be to practice making guys feel comfortable so that they will ask you out.
CHAT
