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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2016 9:14 pm 
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Do you text her/call her much? If so, flirty/fun/tease/all about the upcoming date?

This is an area I need to work on because im always in 2 minds.

1. Text daily leading up to the date. Keeps her on your mind, further aids in interest. But can transform you into a text/phone buddy and come across as shes the only number on your phone and you have no other options.

2. Keep it short and sweet or nothing at all. She might think you're not that bothered about it, and may flake for someone who's giving her more attention.

Whats the correct procedure?


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2016 10:27 pm 
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Do you text her/call her much? If so, flirty/fun/tease/all about the upcoming date?

This is an area I need to work on because im always in 2 minds.

1. Text daily leading up to the date. Keeps her on your mind

NO.

Assume you are on her mind. Assume you are on the mind of all women who give you their number. Always assume interest and attraction.

Texting her daily to "keep her on your mind" is acting out of insecurity and fear...fear that you're not interesting enough for her to remember.

You are the prize. Proceed with the thought that she needs to prove herself to you.
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2. Keep it short and sweet or nothing at all. She might think you're not that bothered about it, and may flake for someone who's giving her more attention.
Nothing. Expect her to arrive at the date because you're the catch.

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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2016 10:45 pm 
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Do you text her/call her much? If so, flirty/fun/tease/all about the upcoming date?

This is an area I need to work on because im always in 2 minds.

1. Text daily leading up to the date. Keeps her on your mind

NO.

Assume you are on her mind. Assume you are on the mind of all women who give you their number. Always assume interest and attraction.

Texting her daily to "keep her on your mind" is acting out of insecurity and fear...fear that you're not interesting enough for her to remember.

You are the prize. Proceed with the thought that she needs to prove herself to you.
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2. Keep it short and sweet or nothing at all. She might think you're not that bothered about it, and may flake for someone who's giving her more attention.
Nothing. Expect her to arrive at the date because you're the catch.
So how do you know if enough rapport has been built for the date to happen? Its a girl from online so she will have loads of other guys numbers too.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 23, 2016 10:47 pm 
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So how do you know if enough rapport has been built for the date to happen? Its a girl from online so she will have loads of other guys numbers too.

Your mind is awash in insecurities right now.

She made a date with you. The rapport for a first date has been created.

But go ahead...feel free to text her daily before the first date. Women love that shit.

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2016 9:35 am 
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I would sent her some funny memes from time to time and keep it short as if you are busy doing other stuff.

I sent them memes like this before first dates, but make sure she understands sarcasm or there won't be a first date haha:

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 26, 2016 10:48 am 
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Lolled at that meme, however not sure how well that would work with her. Plus im in the UK, girls are different.


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