Ok, been in game for quite some time now, been with plenty of girls, and finally decided to stay with one for a while, kinda got attached to her, anyway, she knows i'm used to seeing many girls.
I'm wondering how the fuck do i get her to give me a blowjob whenever the fuck i want? cause idon't like to insist
( i feel needy if i insist) ?
How do i react when she doesn't want to fuck?
And she says to me alot " you are very dear to me" and " i like you" or things like that while we cuddle and stay in bed, whats up with it? how do i react? i told her only twice i like you too, and she told me over 50 times.

This post is a bit lazy spikes..


What exactly is going on? And why did you decide to settle down with her out of the other girls that you were seeing? And why does she think its acceptable to turn down your advances? She's only going to do what you're willing to put up with. So if you're accepting it and moving forward, she'll have no other choice but to think that behavior is acceptable.

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Has she ever given you a blowjob?

If she hasn't, do this. Make her orgasm and the moment that she does, go for the blowjob without asking. She'll be in high off the orgasm and won't refuse.

If she has given you one, be bold enough to show her that you want one. Unzip your pants in front of her and pull it out right next to her face. If she asks why you did that TELL her that you want a blowjob. Don't show any doubt that she's going to give you one.

Tell her how amazing she was at it afterwards.

Yeah she has given me before, and she says she doesn't like me to insist on things, and thats what i usually do pull the dick out and she sometimes goes for it and sometimes doesn't ( today she said she is going tomorrow at ginecolog ) and can't fuck so i asked for a blowjob before i go back at my hometown for a day, i'll be back tomorrow, and she said she doesn't feel like it and it wont happen if i insist, she knows i love blowjobs.


@ Eddie Fews, bro i got in a relationship because i kinda liked her, you answered to my other topic here :
general-questions/fuck-buddy-turn-into- ... 19-30.html

about how to turn a fuck buddy into a girl, so we kinda turned it into a relationship, becaming exclusive and all that, i know she likes me alot and she is scared of being hurt.
She thinks that i don't care that much of her cause i don't really show it alot or say it, but i do and last night we had a talk and i stopped the movie we were watching and told her that i saw she was talking with a guy she used to see, and i told her " i know you think i wont mind, but i do" and she was surprised, she said " i haven't sleept with him since you were gone home and i always get excuses not to go out with him" . I believe her, but fuck i don't want to be jealous, how the fuck do i stop ?
And i think it's good that i get some experience in relatioships, and she lives in the same dormroom with me so we are close to each other thats why i kinda chose to setle down for her.

I wouldn't trust it if I were you because she should be thinking that he's leaving and going back to the place where he has alot of girls liking him and she's refusing to give you a bj. If my guy left town I'd put it on him in a way that he would be debating staying one more day.

i was kinda obligated to go home, because i have to go on a trip this weekend with the school, so she had no chance to make me stay one more day, the thing is, it's kinda killing me when i don't really see her online on facebook, makes me think she is out, and i don't want to start snooping on her phone and look at the fb messages and all that. I want to stop this fucking jealousy, i don't usually initiate conversations with her she usually does, should i intiate it sometimes?

I was trying to tell you how she was supposed to make you feel regardless of your obligations.

I'm not saying that she's out and I seriously hope you wouldn't turn into a guy that is so unconfident that he would start going through her phone. I do think that your gut feeling is telling you that something is definitely wrong and you should pay attention to that because she isn't willing to cater to your needs as a man.

wait she was cheating on you? Wtf man

nah bro , back then we we're just fuck buddies, i used to fuck other chicks too, we just kinda developed into a relationship and didn't really see other people, we we're spending alot of time together.

We get a lot of girls that come in here giving girlie type of answers and advice. You give advice that is kind of like the advice a dude would give and most of it is pretty good, IMO. I'm not making any accusations, though.

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I wouldn't even call it girly advice. It was plain stupid advice 9/10 times.
Wherever did the 'highly educated' chick that would only date doctors and refuse to god forbid ever pay a meal for herself go?
This forum needed a female poster that actually knows how to be a woman for once.


Anyway, OP, if she's not wanting to have sex with you you're either not giving her a pleasurable enough experience or you're being naggy about it.
Also do you go down on her?

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Is confusing. Also, what do you mean by "how to react when she doesnt want to fuck?" More details are needed. You could want to fuck her an unreasonable amount, or a normal amount and she doesnt. Which is it?

This is very good advice for acting more dominant in bed.

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This!

Tell her "I like you" afterwards each time .