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 Post subject: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2016 2:37 pm 
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Hello guys,

I hope this is the correct forum for my problem. Otherwise feel free to move the topic.

Three month ago, i got picked up by a HB8. She just wanted an ONS, because she just finished a LTR. She wasnt over her EX, so she Shittested me alot by talking about him.

We had so much fun together, our sex was great. We had the same interessts. So we decided to meet more.
She came over the next two days. Than she told me she rly enjoys hanging out with me.

It wasnt called a relationship, but we lived like we used to have a LTR. I met her colleagues, best friends and parents. She refused to meet my parents. She was rly insecure.

We had two months of alot of fun and even more Shittests, but i passed them.

After two months, i must have failed. She started nagging alot, i said lets take a break. She said yes, but came over the same evening. The next day, the same. On the third day, she said ok she needs a break.

Three days later, she called me and said i didnt call. i told her she said she needed time. Now she wants to see me. I came over, everything fine.
This behavior happend a few times.

Till one time, she said its over, and i had enough. The reason was her EX, she couldnt manage to forget him.
But i wanted to keep a friendship, to get her back. Used to meet her, cheer her up and stuff.
Three weeks ago, she told me finally shes seeing a new guy, she loves him (for the record, she told me she loves me after two weeks too).

I met her randomly again, she told me how great everything is, but she didnt look like that, her bodylanguage also said something different, because she was rly flirting (sit close to me, legs crossed with feet facing me while standing, touching hair, etc).

Now im thinking about to use a BF Destroyer to get her back. She is rly hot and we got alot in common.

Now im asking on advice, im not much of a PUA. But i think u guys are the best to help me.

Please excuse my bad english and PUA-shortcuts, im neither a nativespeaker nor a PUA.

yours truly,
Draisig30


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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2016 3:00 pm 
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First off, she's fucked up. Who confesses love after 2 weeks?
Secondly, you were a rebound.

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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2016 4:04 pm 
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So u recommon to forget her?
I get this advice alot and i know it would be better, but i started to get feelings for her and im not over it...


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but i started to get feelings for her and im not over it...
All the more reason to forget her.

You really want to be serious with a girl like that?

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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
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I dont know.
She fucked up, true.

But ive never felt so lucky while i was with her. She is like me. The sex was great.
We have so much in common. Humor, Hobbys and Stuff.

I keep on thinking i never find a girl like her... sounds sad, hum?


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I keep on thinking i never find a girl like her... sounds sad, hum?
Sounds like you're just thinking with you dick.

You'll find better.

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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
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Id say im thinkin with my heart. :)
She felt like my soulmate and im still into her.

I also got no experience with LTRs. Maybe thats why i clinge to her.

But i miss it so much and cant go out to street and talk to other girls right now.

Well, than thanks for ur input. i try to come clear and just nod politly when i pass her.


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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2016 9:14 pm 
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This woman doesn't know what she wants, to the point she's disrespecting you.

Walk away. If she texts you, be indifferent.

Game other women. This is one of those girls that will jump back on you if you move on with your life and she sees you with other women.

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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Thu Nov 03, 2016 9:51 pm 
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But i wanted to keep a friendship, to get her back. Used to meet her, cheer her up and stuff.
Woah, that's were you crossed the Rubicon.
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This woman doesn't know what she wants, to the point she's disrespecting you.
She knows, she knows she doesn't want op. She might like him, but doesn't care enough. Once he went beta friend he was done in her eyes.


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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
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Yeah thats the same thing i thought. It seemed like a good idea at this point. Because she didnt tell me that she isnt happy anymore. She told me her EX is still on her mind.

Thats why i wanted to keep a little bit of distance and if i still want her back then - i thought i try it with a BF destroyer.

Not sure if thats what they are for and its clever - so i came here for advice.


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They don't work.

BF Destroyer is a term made up by people trying to shove a product down gullible guys' throats.

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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2016 2:26 pm 
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Ok thanks for the advice.

Her Birthday is soon. So i thought about texting her. Maybe even a small gift so she gets reminded of me.

I know i should move on. But i got ONITIS so hard... i gotta date tomorrow. Im on a party with alot of girls tonight. But i just dont feel like im over her...

any advice to get over it?
I would like to fight, but its over i guess

So i want to get over it, but i have a hard time thinkin about other girls


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Start falling for another girl...which means you have to talk to them. Leave your ex alone, y'all are finished and she's been fucked in the ass by this new dude

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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Fri Nov 18, 2016 4:24 pm 
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Ok thanks for the advice.

Her Birthday is soon. So i thought about texting her. Maybe even a small gift so she gets reminded of me.

I know i should move on. But i got ONITIS so hard... i gotta date tomorrow. Im on a party with alot of girls tonight. But i just dont feel like im over her...

any advice to get over it?
I would like to fight, but its over i guess

So i want to get over it, but i have a hard time thinkin about other girls
Stop wanting to fight for people who are not fighting for you.

You're asking me if you should just have just one beer although you're fully aware you're an alcoholic. There's just no scenario in which that's a valid/good idea.

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 Post subject: Re: BF Destroyer on EX?
PostPosted: Thu Nov 24, 2016 5:44 pm 
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I wouldn't worry about her. At the most, you might get laid again or even start the relationship back up, but it will most likely be a repeat of what happened the first time. In my experience, if a woman does something once, it won't be long before she does it again.


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