Hey guys so Im new to pick up and improving myself to get better with women. I read models by Mark Manson and he talked about living an attractive lifestyle. I want to change my hobbies and try new stuff. What do you guys do and enjoy that can help with girls also?

I cold call people and negotiate multi-thousand dollar deals. - Hoping to get this to multi-million dollar deals one day.

It's great for my lifestyle, and after doing that a while, talking to women is literally nothing.

I believe it's a contrast biased at work here. So my suggestion would be to be a cold call salesmen for a while on the side.

It puts money in your pocket and increases your communication and persuasion skills.

If that scares you. Anything that allows you to talk to people a lot just to be more sociable. Volunteer at a soup kitchen and talk to the homeless men. You'd be surprised even though they are some of the most pessimistic people you will ever meet...they will talk your freaking ear off, have some of the biggest egos, and many are simply fucking hilarious.

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Pick hobbies you enjoy. For example, many years ago, I tried to pickup the guitar because you know, girls like that shit.


I sucked.

I decided to try another instrument instead, which was the piano. I am actually decent at that and i enjoy it more, so that's where I got my hobby. The end.

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get into improv, standup comedy, or hey get into Spoken word. I am shocked by how many girls love spoken word...but word of caution lot of them are feminists...lol

The hobby that's going to get you laid, is going out and doing pick up itself.

My mom always put out amazing food back home, so I got into cooking when I was in college and never looked back. That, and good drinks - cocktails, wine, whatever. Have a fully stocked and equipped kitchen now and an 85+ bottle bar at home. I've become to go-to guy for dining, food and drink advice at work and between friends.

Knowing your way around the world of food and drinks can be beneficial if you want to entertain at your place or show a girl a good night out on the town. If you're adventurous enough you can show her something new that she might come to love - never a bad thing.

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Here's why women react to hobbies. Most of the time it's because of the guy that's doing the hobby. "I love that you play the piano. That's so awesome." "It's so cool that you can cook, it's so rare to find a guy who can do that." It's because we like you and we're going to stroke your ego. If you said you collected butterflies and we liked you, we will like the fact that you collect butterflies. If we don't like you, you're just a guy that likes to collect bugs. Sometimes there are impressive hobbies but we won't like you because of it unless we do it as well.

It's therefore helpful to have hobbies that you can use to connect with women. Most guys just like the usual: sports and video games. Not helpful.

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I think you missed my point. But I'm not going to argue with you. All your posts that I've seen from you so far is you arguing. From a female perspective, I can tell you that my reactions and most of the women I know wouldn't be in line of what you think. I don't want to be another person stuck arguing with you so we can agree to disagree.

Have a hobby that girls like that they react to. Don't be the typical guy playing video games and watching sports, girls never react to video games, watching sport, tv shows, movies etc.

As previously listed, instruments and cooking are great. Cooking may be better though as it's an activity girls can generally join in as well. With cooking, it's very hands on and physical. There's lots of contact with you and the girl.

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The attractive lifestyle is not so much about hobbies or playing the piano, it's about how much
are you enjoying life in general?

How is your life set up so you actually enjoy it?

Look at your job, and see if you like it. If you don't, what can you do about it?

What do you do in your spare time? Do you do what you honestly want to do?

For example, I had a period in my life where all I did was work with guys as a coach, go
to the gym, eat the foods I thought were awesome for my body, and then go out and
enjoy myself.

I picked up women, had dates, and on the weekends I took these trips to amazing places
with my car.

I had an amazing life that I loved, and chicks could dig it.

So it's not about hobbies, you want to think about how you'd like your day-to-day life to
look like.

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Lifestyle? Psh.

Just go practice talking to women. I'd hate to build my life worrying about whether every aspect appealed to strangers.

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Only few times I agree. The lifestyle is for you only OP. Girls will suck your dick without ever seeing you do any of these hobbies

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I read these statements and wonder how many of you guys really do get girls. Even if you do get girls do you even understand why? We're not going to react to you playing an instrument if we don't like you. We're not going to join in and cook with you if we don't like you. If we like you we'll sit down and watch sports with you. If we like you, we'll try to play that video game with you and if we can't we'll watch. We'll watch your tv shows and movies with you if we like you. If you do any hobbies because you think it will attract girls you should be prepared to be disappointed. The moment we don't like you, we're going to hate your cooking, your music, your games, your favorite team, and anything we can relate to you.

It's definitely a bonus if the girl is into cooking (or whatever) too, like someone else said, but one thing I want to add is that assuming you're REALLY into whatever that hobby is, you can express why you're passionate about it and open up on a more personal level with the girl. Opening up about it and being comfortable while you're vulnerable is attractive.

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