Have met a woman whom I have totally fallen for like a ton of bricks, but she has friend zoned me totally. Even though we have when we have been together, well a back rub has leaded to more but shes always has stopped it. And she has said she doesnt want to lose me, well my profile on the dating site I met her through didnt have me as looking for friends. I do care for her very much and we usually cam chat every day, but I want to be oulled out of the friend Zone, fast I want her to see me as a sexual being thats into her. so help!

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Brian

Then stop being 'friendly' and get 'sexual'. Flirt.

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If you didn't want to be her friend, why did you opt to be her friend when she decided to friend zone you in the first place? You guys go on accepting a position that you don't really want, and then turn around and decide that you lied all along and don't actually want that position and then want a woman to take you serious when you've already displayed that you're dishonest, manipulative, and willing to accept less than what you want in life. Why should she be interested in you beyond friends now when you've already fooled her into thinking thats what you wanted when you accepted the zone she put you in by being her friend?

You have to be a man from the beginning and set the proper foundation from the beginning. You don't just flip the script when you can't take suppressing you true desires anymore. If you went into a restaurant and ordered a steak, but they brought you fish and said " We don't want you to eat our steak. We're going to give you fish" and then you sat their an ate all the fish; would you then turn around and say " I want the steak now" after this fish is half eaten? Its a bit too late.

Is it impossible? No. But its definitely challenging. If you want to be more than friends you have to stop being her friend. You're not going to friend your way into her vagina. You change your behavior consistently and she'll change how she responds to you. You want her to see you as a sexual being? Be sexual toward her. Just understand that no seduction comes without risk. The friendship will have to be sacrificed for a potential sexual relationship.

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When you get friend zoned the woman has categorized you. Most likely you should simply find other women. But, I know where you're coming from. The woman seems to just keep popping up in your head. That's a sign of obsession with her. When she has that same obsession back towards you that's called being in love.

Here's the thing though. If you simply clear your mind each time she pops up eventually the shit just stops happening. I could break down the internal brain science of it, but I don't feel like it. PM me if you're curious.

So that's one option. Clear her out of your pop up thoughts and move on.

Another is to pattern interrupt her friend zone of you. I usually just leave so I haven't used this much.

When the friend stuff starts you do something unexpected and jarring enough to switch her brain out of automatic response mode. Like snapping your fingers or slapping her ass playfully or something. Then you introduce the idea of attraction to her. I personally like to slowly guide the woman into coming to the conclusion herself, in the more complex situations.

A great place for you to learn these tricks is to study NLP. You'll start to change her internal stories over time, but it's delving into ethical boundaries because you make the woman obsessed with you. That can be dangerous under certain circumstances and it's bad karma if all you want to do is sleep with her. I wouldn't advise such a thing in that case. I'd simply move on.

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