Have met a woman whom I have totally fallen for like a ton of bricks, but she has friend zoned me totally. Even though we have when we have been together, well a back rub has leaded to more but shes always has stopped it. And she has said she doesnt want to lose me, well my profile on the dating site I met her through didnt have me as looking for friends. I do care for her very much and we usually cam chat every day, but I want to be pulled out of the friend Zone, fast I want her to see me as a sexual being thats into her. so help! As she is still on that dating site and prob chatting to right wankers hahha!

cheers
Brian

you caught oneitis,go out and get some SPAM

well perhaps but a bit more advice rather than just go out would be nice from anyone please, ( even thogh its a valid point of view thanks) want to try and approach this in a logical way, ok it maybe oneitis but she is something else totally, I have never flipped ;ike this before over someone and im inb my bloody early 40's!

She isn't into you, and your legit best option is to go out more to find other women. This one is not special, nobody is, and chasing after her will just have you doing stupid, desperate shit.

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If you didn't want to be her friend, why did you opt to be her friend when she decided to friend zone you in the first place? You guys go on accepting a position that you don't really want, and then turn around and decide that you lied all along and don't actually want that position and then want a woman to take you serious when you've already displayed that you're dishonest, manipulative, and willing to accept less than what you want in life. Why should she be interested in you beyond friends now when you've already fooled her into thinking thats what you wanted when you accepted the zone she put you in by being her friend?

You have to be a man from the beginning and set the proper foundation from the beginning. You don't just flip the script when you can't take suppressing you true desires anymore. If you went into a restaurant and ordered a steak, but they brought you fish and said " We don't want you to eat our steak. We're going to give you fish" and then you sat their an ate all the fish; would you then turn around and say " I want the steak now" after this fish is half eaten? Its a bit too late.

Is it impossible? No. But its definitely challenging. If you want to be more than friends you have to stop being her friend. You're not going to friend your way into her vagina. You change your behavior consistently and she'll change how she responds to you. You want her to see you as a sexual being? Be sexual toward her. Just understand that no seduction comes without risk. The friendship will have to be sacrificed for a potential sexual relationship.

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