So my girlfriend has this friend (they work together) and I could always tell she was a bit of a closet freak, but she has a boyfriend. So recently, and this was by complete accident, I came across her private blog on tumblr where she posts nude pics (amongst other, more normal shit). I kept it secret for a while, until about a week ago I decided fuck it and liked one of her nudes, so she would know that I know her secret.. I wasn't sure how she would react to this. I saw her in person the next day (with my girlfriend present), and I could tell she liked the attention she got from me. She's continued to post nudes on her blog, and she went out of her way to wish me a happy birthday the other day.. so my question is, how do I take this a little further? I want to get with her, but I also want to keep my girlfriend!

Sometimes you have to be smarter than your penis. Trying to do something behind your girlfriend's back with her friend will usually lead to you getting caught...even liking one of her friend's nude pics.

The only thing that I would suggest to you is getting your girlfriend to agree to a 3some.

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I've suggested the 3 sum to my girlfriend before. Her friend IS bi but my girlfriend doesn't think she is attracted to her. Plus she has a boyfriend so that always comes into the conversation. Maybe you're right though.. it's just so tempting to try and make a move, but I don't really know how, or how she would react if I did

But don't jizz on the other girl.

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Tell her hey I saw your pic's. Nice!!! You think you could send me some more?

He said he wants to keep his girlfriend.

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I really doubt she will tell his girlfriend. Up to now she didn't mentioned to her freind that he liked her nude pick. These types of chicks crave attention.

Lol. So naive. One thing that girls tend to do is cause drama between each other every once in a while. Even girls that are best friends. At some point, him asking her for a nude can be used as a trump card.

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At this point the only way I can see that she tells his girlfriend is if he stops putting likes in her nudes. What you think that she didn't notice his like? Of course she did. That's why she posted more afterward.

That's pretty one-dimensional thinking. You're saying that the only reason that she would tell his girlfriend is because of his actions or holding him hostage to keep liking her nudes. What happens the day when the girlfriend's friend has problems with her boyfriend and the girlfriend says something negative about the friend's boyfriend because of things he's done in the past? Do you think she'd bite her tongue and not talk about the OP liking her nudes? Women have petty issues and when that happens, they'll play dirty and cut deep.

Keep in mind...she didn't post the original pictures for him, so there's no proof that any nudes that came after him liking the originals were for his benefit.

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Some other factors here: after I liked the pic she reblogged some porn pics.. which she never posts otherwise. She also tags her nudes with the name of the city we live in. It's almost like she wants guys like me to discover it.. she definitely loves the attention either way. Whenever I see her while I'm with my girlfriend she plays it totally cool. I'm just scared to take that next step because I don't want it to backfire! Would it be better to say something in person, or drop her a message online??

Stop reading into nonsense and act like a man:

"Hey girlfriend, of all your friends nude pic girl would be the only one I'd consider having a threesom with. Might be fun."

Make your girlfriend and nude pic girl qualify themselves to your standards for a threesome.

There's no reason you can't keep your girlfriend and have sex with other women occasionally. But being honest and open about your desires is the only way.

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