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Like your toughts on this one:
"Hey, you look like you're having trouble picking a meal too, how about this: I pick something for you, you pick something for me."
If there is any resistence trow in a: "come on, it's an adventure! what the worst that can happen?" or "i'll promise to take real good care of you!"
My point just for this post was just so you put yourself, mentally, in an ordinary situation when an opportunity presents itself and think what you would do to open a girl. That being said...I like your opener with the exception of it being too long. If it's long, it seems like you're building up to something and walls of resistance are going to be put into place. What that boils down to is that it's going to keep her from being in the moment with you and instead start analyzing you. My advice would be to cut out most of it and just say, "I pick something for you, you pick something for me."
Btw...the best part of your opener is that it creates a "we" connection. It's not just about you or just about her. I don't know if you were going for that...but it's a good thing to keep in mind.