I hit a jackpot this weekend when I was chatting to a hot girl on Tinder. I asked her "on our date where would we go and why would you be angry at the waitress" it turned into role playing about the waitresses flirting with me then me and her make out in front of the waitress in revenge. We are both taking it in turns telling the story and she starts getting really dirty.

I get her number and we talk sexual, she sends me pics of her breasts where she has a nipple piecing. We both get excited and decide to meet that night. She doesn't wanna drink and drive so we just agree to come to mine.

She comes over within about 2 hours. We get talking and I decide to put on a film and snuggle. We had a cartoon one but switched it to a horror as we both like horror. We cuddle, a lot of touching I kiss her forehead and we snuggle.

After the film (we watched all of) continue snuggling. We make out but it doesn't lead to sex or anything similar, at the end she said not on a first date so I was cool with it as I don't like pressure. I feel like I messed up and should of banged her though. I asked her at the end of the date does she want to see me again and it's okay if she doesn't and he said she does.

She left that night. We spoke when she got home. I sent her a stupid boring AFC how is your day going message yesterday morning and she has read it but not replied.

When we met she was very shy. I feel like she is the type of girl who has strong personality but the shyness gets in he way. I haven't mentioned it to her but I'm willing to wait till she comes out her shell more. I do have a strong feeling that she has rejected me maybe but that's probably in my head.

I really would like to arrange a second meet with her this weekend. I wanted to open by saying something cocky/funny that will grab her attention.

The date happened on Sunday. I texted her Monday morning with no reply. I won't text her again today. I will do it tomorrow or just call her!

1. She put the pussy on a buffet platter and waited for you but you turned it down. She WANTED to get sexual and you didn't push - she MUST put up token resistance in her head but that doesn't mean she doesn't want it. Ignore what she SAYS and pay attention to what she does.

Sexualization early? Yep, she showed you her boobs
Willingness to have sex? Yep, she came over to yours on the pretext that she doesn't drink and drive

You didn't escalate enough but next time I would advise you to escalate more!

Thanks I'm just hoping I haven't ruined my chances. After work about 9pm I'm just gunna call her and chat with her. I'm gunna score a second date. I might talk a little sexual too with her.

I'm hoping she will respect me more for not pushing her on the first meet. She's already met me so she should be up for a second.

What'd you reckon I should say? Good things come to wait?

So you went from this: To this: Talk about moving backwards.
You probably did.
Respect you for not "pushing" her? Man that girl took a shower. She washed her hair, shaved her legs, ironed her clothes, put her best makeup on. All that to meet you.
And you end up fully wasting her time and effort. Now you hope she'll respect that?

Do you think women are stupid, missing some chromosomes or something? Do you think they don't understand the implications of coming to your place?
If a woman does not want to put herself in a position that might lead to sex, she will not be coming to your house.
She even sent you nudes, dude.

There's no shortage of guys on this forum that will take the gun out, clean it, load it, aim it and then freeze when it comes to pulling the trigger.
Pull the damn trigger in the future. You're good enough to get to that last step, so take the damn step.

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Sounds to me like the typical guy that gets over zealous when he finally lands a girl that more attractive than the girls he's used to dating. Sounds to me like you lucked up, caught her on the right day, but once it didn't come to close, where you truly are along your path of attracting women is all that was left. It happens man.

The best for you to do is to lay low for at least a week. See what she does. You can try again if you must, but you have to stop over analyzing, thinking about it, and you have to be ready to let it go.

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Yeah you guys are right. I shouldn't of wasted time. I'm not used to hook ups I usually date and get to someone first. I used to rely on alcohol but lately I've avoided it or only had a couple.

She was a lot more attractive than I am used to and taller haha. I'll try her in a couple of weeks maybe then but yeah I've let her go and learnt.