How to approach a girl at the gym(that I met few times)?



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 08, 2016 1:45 am 
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I'm a total noob, and I'll admit it, I've never had girlfriend or had sex although I don't have problem with talking to girls(not feeling shy etc..), it was mostly the messed up enviroment that I grew up in, but this is an entire new story which I will not tell. Now the problem is that I don't have a clue how to approach them etc. etc. Now I'm in college and in new country and everything has changed.

So there is this cute girl at the gym that I've saw few times working out. I was wondering what would be a good way to approach her(conversations starters, topics etc.) As I mentioned I've noticed her few times so should and/or could I use that as a conversation starter or topic(without sounding creepy) next time I see her? I've never really started any conversations with her so far,every time I see her I just tried avoiding her, doing my thing but I did notice her looking at me several times while I was working out. So guys if you were in my situation, how would you approach her?

I know I may sound lame, but after all this website is to help out each other.


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PostPosted: Tue Nov 08, 2016 8:10 am 
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An opener that I came up with, but haven’t used yet, is this:

Walk up to her (preferably when she isn’t in the middle of working out, do it before or after her workout or when she goes to the water fountain) tell her, “Let me guess…” study her body up and down for 1 or 2 seconds and tell her, “leg day.”

It’s short and simple, but I would be surprised if that would not lead to a conversation to build rapport.

Hope this helps.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2016 9:40 am 
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An opener that I came up with, but haven’t used yet, is this:

Walk up to her (preferably when she isn’t in the middle of working out, do it before or after her workout or when she goes to the water fountain) tell her, “Let me guess…” study her body up and down for 1 or 2 seconds and tell her, “leg day.”

It’s short and simple, but I would be surprised if that would not lead to a conversation to build rapport.

Hope this helps.

Lol this is super creepy

Dude, maybe making eye contact and smiling at her would be a good start. If you see her staring at you, chances are she atleast wants you to acknowledge her existence.


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PostPosted: Wed Nov 09, 2016 9:30 pm 
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Sounds like you're saying the girl has already taken interest in you.. Starring at you etc. She's just waiting on you to man up and go say hello.

You have to pay to play man.. You want the girl? Get over the weakest inhibiting fear and go do what you have to do.

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