She likely cheated on you before she left hence the arguing over small things. She most likely fucked abroad too. Once moving to a new a city she now sees there's more options to satisfy her hypergamy. Her 'texts' She sends are to validate herself and check your interest as the 'safe option.' Do not contact her unless it is for sex. A simple text that says 'come over' that doesn't generate an enthusiastic yes in her part means no further attention. Start fucking other women now that you don't live together. Have some self respect. She is just a girl and is not special.

You're completely right, man.

This is how its gone.

She ended up replying and saying that "Yesterday was good. I've been sick all week"
I responded "Those stomach pains?" (she was having some before the "break")...
She said "Congestion and headache. I sound like a man."
And I said "No bueno. I'm sorry."
Her, "That's okay "


Like you all were saying, Let her invest in it and don't make effort in continuing on the conversation. I didn't respond back. Its been a little over a day now.

HOWEVER, since she moved out about 3 weeks ago and she's in sales, I've gotten a package from her company. I don't want to make it seem as if I'm trying to make an excuse to see her, which I don't cause then the whole feelings and shit will interfere with the progress I've had this past week.

Should I just drop it off at her front door (in new apartment) and hope no one takes it or text her and ask her what she wants me to do with it?

And I think texting her to "come over" sounds too clingy and wanting her attention too soon. It's only been a week with very limited contact.

Yes you did respond back.
Courier it to her.

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Shit. Aight.

Last thing. She needs to transfer me money for the lease cancellation fee we had to split. She said last week she'd transfer half the money today... she still hasn't, though.

Imma give her until 4:30 and if she hasn't I'm going to text her "hey can you transfer when you get some time. Thanks."

Or is there a better approach? This is where i get confused because I have to contact her for little things because she moved out. Such as making sure she changed her address on her shit so I don't keep getting it and I still need to get some stuff from her apartment..

OP if you ever get close again, you should grab her vagina like Donald Trump, holding something that has that much power would do you a world of good.


If you contact her again you need to forfeit your god given right to stand up when you pee.

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She sounds about as interested in you as a child would be in receiving socks for xmas.

Move on. The more you toil in this the harder a time u'll have to piecing your life back together. Have some semblance of integrity.