Flirting is more exciting than small talk. Your step 3 is my step 1. My step 1 is more efficient and fun than your step 1 and 2 for both the guy and girl.

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You are literally the fat ass couch potato giving people dieting advice. Stop it.

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Guys, come on. We're all in the same boat here. Let's try to get along.

Not really. If you read some of his posts you'll see what I mean.

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We are definitely not in the same boat. His advice is to go up to girls and have a normal, friendly conversation and if you like her then ask her out after you ask if she has a boyfriend. Eventualy, once you guys figure out if the two of you have some things in common, you will be on track to having a long lasting relationship. It's unrealistic, especially for women that you don't know. It sets you up as boring and it doesn't create an emotional spark. Ultimately, you'll be back here asking why the girl flaked on you, doesn't answer your text, or trying to figure out why she only wants to be friends.

If you believe that advice is good advice, I encourage you to go out and talk to 100 attractive women that you've never met and see where that gets you.

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I'm just saying that we can debate without hurdling insults.

I agree with what you're saying more than him, but it's not necessary to insult him.

I went to a Buddhist service on Wednesday after getting into a fistfight with my brother.

The reverend said that he thinks this election season and the debates are teaching people that it's proper to behave like Trump and Clinton and is causing America to lose its civility.

I agree.

Guys fuck up by thinking your step one IS step one. You should start projecting sexual it immediately. By the way nice little racism in there os assuming the Asian girl is a prude.

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Haha, what a line.

Ok fine I haven't talked to her since last week. probably doesn't even remember me. What should I say if I install kik?

"Have you seen my package? I think maybe I should get my package stuck in your mailbox more often. You know... just jammed right up in there into that mailbox of yours... ungh.. special delivery"

just kidding....

i think both sides have a serious point.

Southeast Asian women, aside from bar girls, tend to be socially conservative. Med students also tend to be level-headed.

How can I be flirty with this Kik thing and then maybe get her to visit my apartment or me visit hers or maybe we can go to the med school library... (sound boring.. these people basically live there... also i wouldn't mind just reading while she studies or something) ... there's also a few restaurants within walking distance of the complex.

what's the plan...

I still legitimately have something that is marked as delivered that i never received. i can use that to open with the Kik app but i probably want to get off Kik as soon as possible and find a way to talk to her in person.

Guys I don't think this girl is a prude.

I just set up my Kik account. Check out this profile photo.

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/ ... sp=sharing

This girl seems down... no bra, even. Makes you wonder if she's wearing panties.

Why did she give me this account?!?!

Honestly, she's like 4'7" and looks kind of nerdy with her glasses, but still.. I'm intrigued. Med student, I think.

You want me to listen to your instructions? Here's your chance.

I still think she might have a piece of my mail still but it was weeks ago that I needed it.

Since then I have been out of town, sick with the cold, and starting a new job.

So, propose to me how to open this after weeks without installing Kik...

Bump... Tell me what to do and I will follow your advice to the letter ... Someone throw me a bone....

Go approach other women and get some experience. You don't become good with One chick...you need to meet Many women. Stop wasting your effort

Agreed. This whole thing of making a plan for one girl is a terrible way to go and it's too much of an investment. Stick with the mindset of you see her and you approach her. Quit being the guy that meets her and then tries to figure out how to make a good second impression.

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Wow... You must be genius.

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Gotcha. Thanks.