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Bren90
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Guys,

Looking for a little guidance,

One of my female friends (not close) has recently became single in the last few weeks, we've always had some chemistry and we've spoke a bit in text etc!

Should I just take the plunge and ask her out direct in a text? Or, should I wait til I see her out and approach, escalate etc?

Would it show confidence/congruence by just asking her out straight in a text? How would you word it?

Any feedback?

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Yes.

Or are you asking how to ask a girl out?

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Bren90
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Heywood,

No of course not! I just mean would it seem random or would it come across as Congruent, me saying I want this and I'm going for it?

As in simply just say...

"I've always thought you were Hot, let's go out"

You get my drift!

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No of course not! I just mean would it seem random or would it come across as Congruent, me saying I want this and I'm going for it?

As in simply just say...

"I've always thought you were Hot, let's go out"

You get my drift!

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I would go with more "Hey I'm going to _________ for a beer later, your joining me."

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Heywood,

No of course not! I just mean would it seem random or would it come across as Congruent, me saying I want this and I'm going for it?

As in simply just say...

"I've always thought you were Hot, let's go out"

You get my drift!

Thanks
I would go with more "Hey I'm going to _________ for a beer later, your joining me."

Never realized how timid guys are for asking the girl out lol

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Bren90
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Assertive,

No problem in asking, just don't want it to come across wrong!

As I said she is a friend but only see her every now and then (separate social group)

I just want to ensure it comes across totally confident and congruent!
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Yeah Heywood I like that for a casual meet, but was thinking about being more direct?

What do you think?
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Bolder?

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Yeah Heywood,

I just want to go for it, so why not try and make an Impact!

Worst comes to worst she thinks it was a bold, confident move!

No lose for me really, can always try an proper approach next time in person and it will show me in different light!
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One of my female friends (not close) has recently became single in the last few weeks, we've always had some chemistry and we've spoke a bit in text etc!
Ah, so you hung around as the male orbiter. Low odds on this one, IMHO.

Ask her out in person.

And if you do text her, stop using all the fucking exclamation points. It makes you look like a five year old.

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Yeah Heywood I like that for a casual meet, but was thinking about being more direct?

What do you think?

Really dude, you can be bold in person...stop procrastinating

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If you're waiting for us to justify a decision you have already made, keep on waiting.

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Bren90
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You're both totally right!

I'm just gonna shoot off a text and see what happens.

Fuck it!

I'll let you guys know...

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