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PostPosted: Thu Mar 13, 2008 11:44 pm 
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This girl i have been seeing for a few weeks now is just screwing around with me. Today was the first day i have seen her since saturday. She came up to my work. She has pretty much ignored my calls and texts since sunday. I was supposed to go out to this show with her monday night but was really worn out from the weekend. So I canceled on her, then texted her back and said "fuckit lets go!" . She said she didnt feel good and then said "no show for us". Turns out she went to the show anyways. I believe its because one of the singers of the band is trying to get into her pants. She is going to be in one of their videos.

Anyways, today she comes in. Of course im happy to see her. She tells me she is on her way to Dallas and is going to be gone for two weeks. What a shock. It just happens her exbf just moved back to Dallas a couple weeks ago. I told her thats too bad because I was really looking forward to hanging out with her this weekend.

HB: "You never said anything about this weekend!"
Me: "Because you never called me back and flaked on me."
HB: "I know, I suck."
Me: "Yeah you do."

She moves in to put her arms around me. I barely react, then give her a big hug. She didn't deserve it. Im really trying to maintain my cocky funny self. But its not going well. She starts to walk out, and I walk her out. Give her a hug and a kiss good bye. She says she will call me when shes on the road cause its a 6 hour drive. I am just really sick of dealing with this BS. This girl is the reason i have started to learn social dynamics. We tried dating a fw months ago and i was alot more AFC then, i still am, but then i was really bad.

Im done with it though cause I know she is going to hang out with some of her friends who all happen to be really tight friends with her exbf. Im jsut sick of putting up with most females stupid bull shit.

Tonight I am going out and I am gudge sarging. There will be no female safe. Its soooooooo fucking on tonite. I just had to get this shit off my chest.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 14, 2008 12:11 am 
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Turn that negative into a positive!

No better way to handle something like then then to GFTOW. Good luck tonight, remember you are THE MAN, THE PRIZE, and everyone wants to hang around YOU!

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See Kay you got alot of self control. One she wouldn't got the hug. Two she would have gotten some bad language from me.

My only rule is...Don't disrespect me!

That is the easiest rule in the book,but people love to break it so it gives me a reason to blow up on them. Which I hav no problem doing.

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Thanks fellas. DR. I appreciate it. Whoopie, i do have self control. I am going to freeze her out. I will not call her, or answer the phone or her texts. Its just annoying cause this is the second time i ahve wasted my time with her. If i talk to her a Next a next time she will know that I will not put up with second class behavior. Its just complete bull shit that im sick of dealing with.


Oh, she loves playing the jelousy game. She showed me the text of one of the guys in the band that she went to go see at 1am. She acts annoyed but i know she loves the attention. It said some afc bull shit like i would do anything for you i would wait for you just to blahblahblah... I just kept thinking what a fucking loser.

Anyway, im gonna jump in the shower read a few more motivvational posts and sarge my ass off tonite.

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Sounds like your giving in to easily man, no offense but it sounds like shes playing you DONT LET THIS HAPPEN, just think..There are hotter bitches out there for you...Don't let this one pull you under, shes obv a control freak and if jealousies here game you be player 1 let her be player 2, but everyone knows player 1 always wins. Tell her the next time she calls that your out and your not arsed to talk to her she'll be left thinking and it'll ruin her trip and you'll be the one shes thinking about, Dont let it get to you.. and remember...your the man say it to yourself everyday when u wake up and when u go asleep hell say it to yourself when your on the shitter..YOURE THE MAN!

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I don't think a freeze out is going to be enough. The reason a freeze out works is because you're taking away something good that she enjoys. It's an immediate cause/effect.

For now, the freeze out will do. Next time she tries to pull that sort of shit, lay it down, let her know you don't accept that type of behavior.

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Thanks again guys. I wanted to lay it down today, but chickened out, cause i still have alot to learn about being more alpha. I was realy frustrated cause llike i said, this is the second time i have dated her, and the second time she has pulled this shit. Its a big shit test, and right nowi just dont give a fuck..

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Hey, if you really want to f-close her, just game one of her friends and show her how to really play the jealousy game!After that she'll either throw herself at you, or try to make you even more jealous, but by this stage her jealousy game will be too obvious and you'll find yourself loosing attraction for her.
Or you could just cut her out and let her fuck that guy in the band...
Choice is all yours bro...

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Beaker- I'd game one of her friends, but they are all doods. She is the type of girl that keeps all of her exbfs as friends. She can fuck the needy ass band member for all i care. I would laugh my ass of if she did, cause the whole band is a bunch of needy tools. I won't see her for 2 weeks, if i see her again. Shes in Dallas now, and Im sure she is hooked up with one of her exbfs considereing he just moved back there 2 weeks ago.


Last night was a semi success. Very limited on the sets to open at the 3 bars me and my crew went too. It was really lame, like 3 guys for every 1 girl. i don't know if it was because of the rain or what. Anyway, i opened one set and # closed this hb8.5, but i think she is interested more in business than anything else. It was funny though i had a great neg. It was Martini night there.

Me: So why aren't you drinking martinis? They are cheap tonite?
HB: I only drink dirty martini's
Me: Yeah, you do look like a dirty girl. ( cocky funny smile)

She had the look of holy shit i cant believe you said that, which made our whole group laugh.

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LOL, bitch took me off her myspace and facebook. Whatever, the cunt can go get all her attention from her little fanboys. Im done.

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And an update on this bs. The chick got back with her exbf. It turns my stomach that i wasted time on her again and this is what happens.

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It's obvious that you do care, or you wouldn't be upset that she took you off her myspace or that she hooked up with one of her ex's.

So, umm, quit caring.

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fuck that girl, theres not enough time in the world to get oneitis. Go out and sarge like theres no tomorrow!

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The true key to success, and ultimately the greatest pitfall of gaming, is to become apathetic. It isn't enough to understand apathy. You have to embrace the concept.

I have to concede that you seem modestly affected by her actions and your counter-reactions. However, nothing would be exciting without a little emotion.

What would I do? What have I done in situations like this?

Text her the following: "A bunch of us are going out to [name of bar] tonight, you guys should join us tonight."

You want her to bring her ex. What's more, you want to game the ex. The reason is not as readily apparent as you may think. They key is to have all the attention on you and you don't want the two of them getting focused on each-other. Befriending the ex insures that.

What follows? Sarging each and every time you go out with them. During brief pauses, turn around, look for a group within three seconds, and open the set whether guys or girls. Chat up for 5 minutes and come back to the two, or better yet, introduce them to each-other.

The greatest satisfaction comes when your spite for her turns in the realization that you didn't need her in the first place. In our need for vengeance and validation you realize that you've been practicing long and hard in order to 'game' her...and in the end you realized you could 'game' better. That, my friends, results in Apathy.

Enjoy :)

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...and in the end you realized you could 'game' better. That, my friends, results in Apathy.
When I read that I realized it may not communicate clearly what I intend. This means to say, that you realize you can 'game' better/hotter girls.


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eurrgh, this whole thread makes me vomit

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