So recently I met a really hot intelligent girl ,Number closed her, passed her shit tests on text and she agreed to go out together...Thing with her is she's a really busy girl who drinks a lot of coffee so she had to schedule when she was available..I meet her and she looked like she hadn't been sleeping so well..anyways we meet at this place and go to my fancy sports car she likes it asks me questions about it and qualifies herself by telling me that she drives manual...anyways we go to the restaurant and she gets an emergency text because someone needs her help desperately....we leave before ordering anything..I drive her back...and later I notice her sending me a friend request on fb I send a low-investment text and no reply yet...

before that she told me that she's busy next week and probably a week after what the heck is going on...am I being played??

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Seems like you didn't show enough interest in her. She doesn't want to waste time with guys who don't escalate.

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Hot girls have a lot of stuff going on in their lives.

Just wait for her to contact you and game other women.

She is playing a game. Win it.

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what! how do you know dear?

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We did get to know about each other during the road trip..

BUT,How can I escalate if I'm driving the car and never actually sat down at the restaurant...just entered it and was going to be seated until this shit happened... the restaurant was romantic everything about it was romantic and I told her to come in formal...she clearly knows that I'm interested in her because of how my interaction to getting a number close and text game was..

by stopping the car and going for the kiss

Dude, avoid restaurants for first date. And girls don't fall for the guys who are romantic, they fall for the guys who a) knows what they want & b) take what they want

Arrange a date in a regular bar. Tell her where to sit and then sit next to her. Learn the art of flirting, it's like a ping pong, light banter, like a dance. You give and you take.

I believe if you're new to all this it will take some time to sink in.

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Ahh...the ole "emergency call" trick. You did something during the drive that spooked her.

And how do you "notice someone sending you a friend request"? You mean she sent you a friend request.

Thing was during that day the weather was extremely horrible it was raining heavily,I was hungry and wanted to go for lunch how would I be able to figure out an a fun activity apart from a restaurant if the situation was not in my favor? It's very hard lol

When I go for a number close I don't exchange social media since I use that as a ping to know ok r u interested in me or not...so after this thing actually happened she sent me a friend request...before all that she told me she is busy all week and next week since it's true as we both have exams...she seems to think that im available because I'm all cool and act like I don't give a fuck about life while she seemed all serious about it..

How did you meet this girl?

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If you would have said online then it would be easier to figure out. Unfortunately, the way you describe everything it doesn't sound like she was too into you. A girl that's into you won't bring a date to a halt unless it's a real emergency. If she's adding you to Facebook later, then it wasn't likely a real emergency but instead an excuse.

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I know it borders on just being contrarian, but hot girls aren't all super busy social butterflies, too, with loads of hobbies, busy professional lives and engaging dating situations. Some hotties are also bookworms lol.

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