Disclaimers first:
1. This is for guys who want to get laid not establish a stable relationship
2. This sort of thing only works on hot women at least an 8 and often better
3. This is for American women specifically
4. This is used to a follow up for a first date or in the early stages, when things are either not going fast enough or she seems hesitant to you sealing the deal. Don't use if the girl is already sexually excited.

The basic idea is to turn the tables on really attractive chicks, and use the same type of words and ideas that they use on guys that they are not interested in. Ideally this is to be used as a reply to message she leaves after a date. Although some girls will just never text first, especially early on. So, wait several days, if she doesn't text you anything than go for it.

Examples:

" I had a great time ___, but I am not sure if there is any chemistry between us."
" You're really cool and a lot of fun, but maybe we should just be friends for now."
" I am not sensing a spark, but I am willing to give it another try."

It does not matter much what she says, and you may deal with a emotional response. Regardless, set up a date, hang out, etc. at the end of the message. Really attractive women are insecure, this sort of thing drives them crazy.

Question: When girls give guys excuses like this it's because they are not interested in them and it was a way to let the man down easy because they know that he is interested. When you talk about turning the tables on the woman by using this on her, wouldn't it be ineffective because the girl is showing that she isn't interested and you are giving her the out that she's looking for? And if you are saying that since girls don't text first, why would you do this if they are interested?

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I normally hate text game but there is some truth in here. Friend-zoning a woman makes her wet for you, lol. It just never, ever happens to attractive women. It scrambles their brains.

However, I think it would only work if there was some kind of physical interaction on the first date.

I never text girls after the first date/fuck. I'll go a week. This basically says the same thing, without saying it. The girls wonder what happened, why isn't he calling, etc. It let's her know sex/dating is common for you, and that you are focused on your goals, and have options. They'll hit you up eventually, desperate and horny to conquer this mysterious and challenging new man who doesn't act like all the other ass kissers.

This is an effective tool on hot women (IE, women who have handsome men blowing up their phone/work/FB daily), but only at the beginning, and only if there is mutual interest.

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The issue with something like this over text, is:
1) Its a HUGE hoop for her to jump through. For a second date to happen, she basically has to come off as desperate. Like, what could she say to those? "No...let's try another date and see!" or "Give me on more shot!" Its too much, ESPECIALLY one date in.

2) its over text. Disqualifying can work well, in person, when its you and the chick and nothing for her to hide behind. Over text, you're at her mercy whether she responds. This is most likely going to turn out like
You: I am not sensing a spark, but I am willing to give it a try.

3 hrs later

You: Hello?

Theres a line between being a challenge, and making the chick have to outright sacrifice her self esteem for you. Hot chicks arent texting back to this, when to do so makes them that desperate. Ironically, this would only prob work over text with 5's and below. Also, if the chick is THAT into you to chase your validation over TEXT, why wouldnt you just fuck her IN PERSON on date 1?!

Yeah...this is how I see it. You're just shooting yourself in the foot by acting like you weren't into it and you're offering her an out if she was on the fence with going out with you again.

I think I get where the OP is coming from because all he is really doing is verbalizing a freeze out that may come if she doesn't act now. I don't like it because it's just putting in extra work that really isn't needed.

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I don't see the point in putting a barrier in front of an already potentially interested girl.

My only question is Why?

What more does one gain from applying this technique that they wouldn't gain from just being honest, true to their convictions, and willing to talk away?

Seems like a technique that can work every now and then but has a greater chance of backfiring than success. And why set yourself up for failure voluntarily when you can get the same results without doing so?

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