Personally, I think in any situation that may or may not be a date, just presume it is a date and that they want something to happen. If it doesn't happen, it is their loss.

Once you start to think like that, you will become more attractive naturally. If you are on a date with the girl, your aim should be to at least kiss her and make sure it's a gooden (for 90% of girls anyway). If you think of your real alpha mates, I'm pretty sure they will bang the girl on the first date. Girls want that. You need to be in a different gear than friend mode from the get go.

When you go on the cinema thing, I think you should make sure to have sent something flirty via text or otherwise beforehand to make it clear you want something to happen. I thought the tone of your originally proposed text was fine. Set the tone slightly and then keep that non friend vibey tone from the get go.

You're not thinking clearly.

A girl reached out to you to hang out.

Think about that for a second.

Ignore everything she says about dating and relationships. This tells me you're way, way too preoccupied with that aspect.

you're getting a second chance. Make the best of it.

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Girls keep guys around who have intelligent minds and can hold good interesting conversation.

There aren't a lot of guys like this, which is why the girl wants you as a friend.

Her reply basically means that you are funny, interested and have your "conversation game" down to a tee. BUT... she's placed you in the "like-minded friend" box, because you fail to show any capability to dominate her sexually.

To put it another way, she's alright with you in her kitchen, but not in her bedroom.

Your next step should be to work on overlaying a sexual vibe onto all your conversations, this'll help you exponentially. Basically, lead her by touch, hold eye contact for abnormal amounts of time, fiddle with her hair occasionally (make sure she looks her prettiest.) Hope I helped

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Google "dicarlo escalation ladder," and I don't care if you need to make flash cards, use that to guide your actions the next time you hang out. It is old material but it worked for me back when I had no clue and needed more structure.

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Always judge chicks by their actions. Ignore everything she said. She asked you out again so there is some residual interest. When you first see her on this this second date, hug and kiss her (on the cheek) nothing too intrusive. Trust me. It'll set the tone for the date. Then, enjoy your date but get in some light kino every chance you get. You must lead. She is a female. She will follow. Observe her behavior towards you and DO NOT be scared to escalate like touching her more, getting in another kiss, inviting her back to your place etc., If not the latter then hug her good bye and get in another kiss for the evening.

You guys rule. Thank you for all the tips and help. I truly appreciate it.